Psychic Reader Profile: Violetmay
Oracle cards, medium, clairvoyance, clairsentience, clairyaudience, absent healing, meditation
Hello, my name is Violetmay, and I am pleased to meet you. I am blessed to be living in beautiful Dorset. I live there with my partner and two cats, enjoying the lovely mix of countryside and seaside.
I'm the right side of 50, and enjoying life the older I get. I love people, music, crafts and sloshing around in the sea when all the tourists have gone home. There is nothing better than having beach almost to yourself.
My cards are very old but reliable Oracle cards, very simple but direct and clear in their message giving qualities. When I connect with them they tell me so much more about a situation and the cards that want to stand out from the others, have their way of doing so, by their position in the reading, or their refusal to lie still on my table. I tell a story with my cards, and explain each one's relevance to the key message and the outcome, and in doing so help unravel and break down a question, and answer into stages. I use a number of layouts from a simple yes/no, to a full 12 month forecast, or a multi-layered reading, (Where questions arise from a 12 card general reading that requires a little more detective work).
I am working with a new tarot deck, that I am getting to know, and will be incorporating this with my readings, when I feel I have really connected to that deck myself. If you wish to explore this deck with me, please let me know, as I am doing quite well with it, and am learning all the time.
I love to listen to people, talk with them and help them find peace, respite and happiness.
What do you like most about giving readings to clients?
I love being able to help people find their own way of dealing with their life and being able to share key information that can help reassure, and confirm decision making. It is so important that people feel listened to, and treated with love and respect, and when someone says, 'Thank you, you've really helped', it makes my day. I think it is important that we have someone/somewhere to go to too, to ask about guidance for the here, now and the future, and I feel blessed to be a part of that. I also feel that people who seek out spiritual guidance are of course spiritually aware themselves, we are all spiritual, but we are not all spiritually aware, and to be able to connect to likeminded people is gift for me to receive as well as give.
How would you say you are typical of your star sign?
I am very typical of my sign; I'm all about justice, and looking after people who need help. I'm very fair minded, and sensitive too, I pick up on bad atmospheres, and in the past would try and deal with all of them, now I pick and choose my battles. I love being able to inspire people to be their own confident champion and teaching life skills needed to do this. Nice artwork and comfy furniture is my thing, do not like doing housework but do it reluctantly, and sometimes need to remind myself to hide my purse. Music is a great love of mine, from trying to make it, to just listening to it. I love live music and theatre; it's about being around people, and sharing a moment. I'm also artistic, and may not be good at it, but it doesn't stop me. I have a witty, dry sense of humour, and won't laugh at the obvious, but laugh hard at the things other people miss. I'm also very romantic which is fortunate, as I have a lovely man who I adore.
When do you remember being first aware of your gift?
I was about 8 years old, when I first was aware of people who had passed on; convinced there was a ghost in our house I plagued my mother about it. I'd sit and talk to him; he was a young boy, who contributed to the odd thumps and bangs that came from my room. I had deja vu moments from this age, and would say to people, 'I already know', when they told me family news. For example when my uncle had died, or we got a new cat, my auntie said, 'I've come to get you today from school, because mum has been out and she's late'. My reply, 'I know, she's got me my own kitten, I shall call her Skippy, she's black and white you know'. When I got home, there was Skippy, black and white and we were inseparable for 17 years. My connection with animals has been evident ever since, with animals who would not normally go to a strange human in their house, 'Oh she's not a people person, she's an outdoor cat... oh well would you look at that, fancy her coming to you like that for a cuddle'.
What is your most memorable experience with a client?
One of my friends suffers with depression and anxiety, and has lost her job; she messaged me just the other day, after talking she said she felt so much better for talking to me. I then felt I had to tell her, 'Oh that beauty course you've applied for, go for it!' She was amazed. She had not told anyone, not me, not posted it on Facebook. It was also not a direction she had hinted at in the past. I also added, 'Oh Auntie Pat thinks it's a brilliant idea', described her auntie Pat to her in great detail. She went very quiet on Facebook messenger, and then said, 'I feel like I have a future again, thank you'. This really made my week, if not year.
What other experiences or qualifications do you have that you feel compliment your work as a reader?
I like to take the stress out of a situation, and provide people with a fresh sense of calm and fresh start regarding a situation, and give them the courage to take the first step in resolving the issues in their lives.
Gifted in providing guided mediation, I can use this to either relax you, or help you deal yourself with an up and coming event, or recurring event. I do not provide telephone hypnosis, but a guided way to find peace and quiet. I have carried out the following guided meditations, past-life regression, conflict resolution, confidence restoration, anxiety relief, and I am a great fan of mindfulness, helping people to feel equipped and calm enough to deal with what is going on with them here and now, and for their future.
Having sat in circle before, I trained to be a healer, and can provide absent healing (emotional), I do not claim to be able to heal physical ailments, but try to reduce the emotional impact upon you. This is delivered by providing chakra realignment, restoring any tired chakra areas, and helping to provide a sense of energy and peace. I also use Angel healing techniques, by connecting with angel guides or spirit guides to find and cleanse blocked energy spots in the body. Once again, this is not to cure ailments, but to relieve the emotional impact felt relating to these issues.
I have a keen interested in numerology, and have provided numerology charts and readings from friends and family. If this is something you wish to explore, as numbers to often appear in readings, please ask.
Most of all I will find the way of resolving your query that suits you or your situation best, and help you to help yourself, or point out any opportunities where luck will play a part all by itself.
What is the most important thing for a person to consider when they decide to have a psychic reading?
For the person receiving the reading, it is so important that they clear their mind if they can, of the things that don't matter, and take the time to relax and remember to breath! So many people forget to breathe slowly. And sit or lay somewhere they are quiet and comfortable. Also make sure they are not going to be disturbed. It is also nice to be prepared to hear things they may not be expecting or didn't get news about things they wanted to hear, but I say please do not reject the information outright, but to take it away and think about it. Sometimes we ask for a reading about our love life, and another matter will dominate, because that is the issue that wants to be dealt with first. But most of all they have to have a relaxed and open mind. It is ok if someone is upset when they come to a reading, very often by talking to someone we release something, or provide the relief to be able to cry, this is o.k, just keep your tissues handy if you feel emotional. But I can reassure them, by the end of the reading, I will be helping wipe those tears away, and they will come away with a sense of purpose, relief, or confidence.
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