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Hi Angie, I'm going on holiday in a few weeks time, and I should be happy and looking forward to travelling, but instead I have my head in my hands, in total despair. I have problems with my housing/council and they say I owe thousands of pounds, the man I just met a few months ago has decided he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. And in my place of employment, my line manager has reported me for accidently sending out the wrong information, making me feel like I have committed a crime. Please give me some kind words of wisdom.

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I can see that you are in a really tricky situation right now, and I feel that regarding your housing/council situation you need to find out the full facts as to why they have suddenly decided that you owe them so much money. Basically you do need the proof and it would be wise to put something to them in writing i.e. an email and include in the email that you wish them to confirm by return that they have received it, once you get the information in black and white detailing how you owe the money (give them a 48hours deadline to do this) then arrange with them either for someone to come and see you at home face to face or arrange to go into the office to discuss this. If it if legitimate that you owe this money then arrange with them for an amount monthly that you can afford to pay it back. If they do not agree to this or you do not feel that this is owed or in fact you owe the money down to their error contact your local M.P. he may be able to help you to get an agreeable compromise. Do not run away or ignore this issue take charge of this and I really do feel that it will get sorted out. The guy that was in your life seems to have decided that he does not wish to be in a relationship any longer but it would have been polite to have explained this to you rather than 'blank' you out. Sadly there is little than you can do about this right now and you need to remember if he is capable of just going quiet on you he would be a really challenging man in the future to deal with and he would not really make you happy. Try to think of this in a positive way and that this is his loss and he is one less problem to deal with everything else that you are having to cope with right now. I am really not surprised that you have made an error in your work with all that you are trying to cope with at this present time. If work are not aware of the stress that you are going through with the council it may be wise to tell your line manager, I feel that he was left with no option but to report it otherwise he could have been in trouble if it had come to light and he has not done so. Again take charge of this and ask to see your line manager in private, explain what has been going on in your life apologise for your error and tell them that you will take more care in the future you do understand the implications of what you have done and will ensure it will not happen again. If you make the first move on this I actually feel you will be okay. This is a really difficult phase you are going through right now but given that you face up to the things that have happened and take some form of action not wait for them to take action on you, you will find the outcome of the council and work will be much better for you. I then feel that you can go on your well deserved holiday knowing that things are more or less resolved. Have a great time away!

Angie
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I can see that you are in a really tricky situation right now, and I feel that regarding your housing/council situation you need to find out the full facts as to why they have suddenly decided that you owe them so much money. Basically you do need the proof and it would be wise to put something to them in writing i.e. an email and include in the email that you wish them to confirm by return that they have received it, once you get the information in black and white detailing how you owe the money (give them a 48hours deadline to do this) then arrange with them either for someone to come and see you at home face to face or arrange to go into the office to discuss this. If it if legitimate that you owe this money then arrange with them for an amount monthly that you can afford to pay it back. If they do not agree to this or you do not feel that this is owed or in fact you owe the money down to their error contact your local M.P. he may be able to help you to get an agreeable compromise. Do not run away or ignore this issue take charge of this and I really do feel that it will get sorted out. The guy that was in your life seems to have decided that he does not wish to be in a relationship any longer but it would have been polite to have explained this to you rather than 'blank' you out. Sadly there is little than you can do about this right now and you need to remember if he is capable of just going quiet on you he would be a really challenging man in the future to deal with and he would not really make you happy. Try to think of this in a positive way and that this is his loss and he is one less problem to deal with everything else that you are having to cope with right now. I am really not surprised that you have made an error in your work with all that you are trying to cope with at this present time. If work are not aware of the stress that you are going through with the council it may be wise to tell your line manager, I feel that he was left with no option but to report it otherwise he could have been in trouble if it had come to light and he has not done so. Again take charge of this and ask to see your line manager in private, explain what has been going on in your life apologise for your error and tell them that you will take more care in the future you do understand the implications of what you have done and will ensure it will not happen again. If you make the first move on this I actually feel you will be okay. This is a really difficult phase you are going through right now but given that you face up to the things that have happened and take some form of action not wait for them to take action on you, you will find the outcome of the council and work will be much better for you. I then feel that you can go on your well deserved holiday knowing that things are more or less resolved. Have a great time away!

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