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Hi, I caught a friend out lying to me about something important. Now I feel like I can never trust her again, I want to be friends but I can't let go of the deceit. I've had trust issues in the past and don't know if I'll be able to move on and be friends with her again. What should I do?

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Hi Anne This is really upsetting for you as you have in the past told her your innermost secrets and the trust has been broken now. Friends lie for many different reasons it does not always me that they are not really your pal or even that they do not care about you. On the other hand sometimes they lie and it means that they are not such a good friend as you thought them to be. Good friends should be able to tell each other the truth. It is always easier to forgive an enemy than a friend and I can see that you will find this really hard to be friends with her again, you could rekindle the friendship but it really will not be the same as the trust has gone and you will choose not to confide in her in the future.. A friendship is based on loyalty and you should have been able to trust her without any hesitation, being loyal means keeping your secrets, respecting your friendship and being available when needed. I feel that you will be able to move on from this but not before you do speak to your "friend" and let her know how badly she has let you down and that your trust for her has gone, she really can be in your life if you wish her to be, it just will not be the same as this has come as a shock to you as she is the last person in the world that you thought would ever lie to you. Think very carefully about what you want or need from this friendship as it cannot be as it was sadly.

Angie
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Hi Anne This is really upsetting for you as you have in the past told her your innermost secrets and the trust has been broken now. Friends lie for many different reasons it does not always me that they are not really your pal or even that they do not care about you. On the other hand sometimes they lie and it means that they are not such a good friend as you thought them to be. Good friends should be able to tell each other the truth. It is always easier to forgive an enemy than a friend and I can see that you will find this really hard to be friends with her again, you could rekindle the friendship but it really will not be the same as the trust has gone and you will choose not to confide in her in the future.. A friendship is based on loyalty and you should have been able to trust her without any hesitation, being loyal means keeping your secrets, respecting your friendship and being available when needed. I feel that you will be able to move on from this but not before you do speak to your "friend" and let her know how badly she has let you down and that your trust for her has gone, she really can be in your life if you wish her to be, it just will not be the same as this has come as a shock to you as she is the last person in the world that you thought would ever lie to you. Think very carefully about what you want or need from this friendship as it cannot be as it was sadly.

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