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I wonder if you can help me please. I am married to a physically disabled man and I don't love him any more. He used to treat me very badly, beating me and putting me down in front of my friends. He even gave away my dog Coco. I met a man many years ago and fell in love instantly with him, his D.O.B is 1/4/73, I got the feeling from him that he liked me too. Can you see us being together, I just want to be loved and to love as well? I don't want to live like this any more. When will I be free of my husband to live the life I want, I love animals and nature and would love to spend a few days by the sea to enjoy the peace and quite, I haven’t had a holiday in 13 years and am so tired and lonely as I can't have my friends here as I have to look after my husband as well as work all day, 7 days a week. Thank you for your kindness.

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Hi Eleanor, Life has not been at all easy with you and dealing with such an abusive man physically or mentally drains you and lowers your self esteem, even though your husband is disabled, does not give him the excuse to do this to you, and this it totally understandable that you have fallen out of love with him, He feels like this is a man of control and the reason he sadly gave your dog away was due to the love that you showered Coco and your husband disliked the fact the love was for your precious dog and you were not giving him all the attention. Your husband is the one with the issue/problem here and there is nothing that you have said or done that has made him this way; this is not your fault. The man that you liked years ago is a ‘’gentle’’ man and actually knows how to treat a woman and his kind heart and warmth is what you feel in love with. In order to be with this man you do need to break free from your current situation which I can see he controls, it is only natural that you would love a break by the sea and peace and quiet; it is not too much to ask after all. It sounds like there is no time for you at all, working and looking after your husband sounds like you have two full time jobs, however, you are woman of substance as you have kept going, but you are not happy and this is something you should have and are entitled too, you really are not asking for too much out of life. It has taken quite some time for you to realise that there is something better for you and to stay with your abusive husband is not living and do not feel guilty about leaving as in fact he has driven you away with his behaviour. I do feel that this man in your life that you like I feel that yes he does like you too, and will always give you time to sort yourself out before getting heavily involved with you, all said and done your decision on your marriage has to come from you and I feel that you will break free and start to live again. Your husband’s disability does not give him the right to treat you this way, and he will dwell on the sympathy vote when you say about parting company. All that you are looking for is peace, harmony and tranquillity and I feel in order to obtain all this you need to take some brave steps out of this situation but do this for you and not for another man. This man I feel will be there for you when you do, but you would start to live again with or without him as you will be making your own decisions and not being intimidated by the man who tries to control…

Angie
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Hi Eleanor, Life has not been at all easy with you and dealing with such an abusive man physically or mentally drains you and lowers your self esteem, even though your husband is disabled, does not give him the excuse to do this to you, and this it totally understandable that you have fallen out of love with him, He feels like this is a man of control and the reason he sadly gave your dog away was due to the love that you showered Coco and your husband disliked the fact the love was for your precious dog and you were not giving him all the attention. Your husband is the one with the issue/problem here and there is nothing that you have said or done that has made him this way; this is not your fault. The man that you liked years ago is a ‘’gentle’’ man and actually knows how to treat a woman and his kind heart and warmth is what you feel in love with. In order to be with this man you do need to break free from your current situation which I can see he controls, it is only natural that you would love a break by the sea and peace and quiet; it is not too much to ask after all. It sounds like there is no time for you at all, working and looking after your husband sounds like you have two full time jobs, however, you are woman of substance as you have kept going, but you are not happy and this is something you should have and are entitled too, you really are not asking for too much out of life. It has taken quite some time for you to realise that there is something better for you and to stay with your abusive husband is not living and do not feel guilty about leaving as in fact he has driven you away with his behaviour. I do feel that this man in your life that you like I feel that yes he does like you too, and will always give you time to sort yourself out before getting heavily involved with you, all said and done your decision on your marriage has to come from you and I feel that you will break free and start to live again. Your husband’s disability does not give him the right to treat you this way, and he will dwell on the sympathy vote when you say about parting company. All that you are looking for is peace, harmony and tranquillity and I feel in order to obtain all this you need to take some brave steps out of this situation but do this for you and not for another man. This man I feel will be there for you when you do, but you would start to live again with or without him as you will be making your own decisions and not being intimidated by the man who tries to control…

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