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I have been widowed for several years now and I dearly would like to meet someone new. All the men I meet are selfish and usually just want me for one thing!! I feel so depressed. I have a man who I have been seeing for two and half years on and off. I feel a very strong link to him. However at times I feel I dislike him so intensely because he can be so rude and does not seem to be on my wavelength. However at times I love him to bits as he can be so loving and compassionate. How can this man have two sides to him? I feel he has been damaged in some way in the past and therefore he can be on the defensive. I also feel at times that he is not telling me the truth over everything and that depresses me but I can't prove it. However at times I feel I am over reacting. Is he the man for me or will there be someone else? I feel so confused.

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Hi Mary I can see that the man you are currently seeing is hard work for you at times and two and a half years later he has not really improved, this man as you say does have two very different sides to him. Even though you have great love for this man I feel that he will not change, he does seem to be set in his own ways. I feel that he does not seem to understand how it upsets you when he is rude. He knows that you are there for him and it appears he thinks that you will always be wanting him and waiting for him. As human beings we tend to accept the love we think we deserve, and sometimes you think for some reason you feel that you just cannot get out. I feel that deep down inside you know that this man is not right for you but you stay and you have tried even harder for this to work. The problem is the longer that you continue this cycle the more your self worth starts to erode this then makes it harder and harder for you to remove yourself from this relationship. Do not forget your worth and this relationship is not working out as you would like it in the present, therefore, it means that it is meant to work out with someone else in the future. I really do feel that if you choose to walk away from this man then there is someone else for you. This new man is very down to earth, and has a lot to offer you for your future. I do feel that this man has been damaged in the past and this does affect your relationship for sure and this really is something that he needs to address with someone professional. I really do not see that you are over reacting at all, this man is difficult for you to handle and I can see that he will always be this way. The decision of where this goes is not going to be easy. I can see how difficult that this is for you, but if you are looking for a man that makes you feel wanted, special and well loved then you will get this with a new man and not this current one. It is time to do some serious thinking…

Angie
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Hi Mary I can see that the man you are currently seeing is hard work for you at times and two and a half years later he has not really improved, this man as you say does have two very different sides to him. Even though you have great love for this man I feel that he will not change, he does seem to be set in his own ways. I feel that he does not seem to understand how it upsets you when he is rude. He knows that you are there for him and it appears he thinks that you will always be wanting him and waiting for him. As human beings we tend to accept the love we think we deserve, and sometimes you think for some reason you feel that you just cannot get out. I feel that deep down inside you know that this man is not right for you but you stay and you have tried even harder for this to work. The problem is the longer that you continue this cycle the more your self worth starts to erode this then makes it harder and harder for you to remove yourself from this relationship. Do not forget your worth and this relationship is not working out as you would like it in the present, therefore, it means that it is meant to work out with someone else in the future. I really do feel that if you choose to walk away from this man then there is someone else for you. This new man is very down to earth, and has a lot to offer you for your future. I do feel that this man has been damaged in the past and this does affect your relationship for sure and this really is something that he needs to address with someone professional. I really do not see that you are over reacting at all, this man is difficult for you to handle and I can see that he will always be this way. The decision of where this goes is not going to be easy. I can see how difficult that this is for you, but if you are looking for a man that makes you feel wanted, special and well loved then you will get this with a new man and not this current one. It is time to do some serious thinking…

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