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I met a fabulous man and we were like soul mates (which I previously thought never existed) He and I were so close and I grew to become his best friend too. We have had a few intimate times and when we do its really great, it feels right and he is very much showing the same happiness, we have had a mini holiday and all sorts like that... However, when things get too good he can’t cope with this and goes missing for about a month. He has said that this is because he will not and cannot enter into a relationship as he was previously hurt and he said the depression he suffered is something he never wants to go through again. So for that reason we have never been an actual couple. Although it’s obvious to everyone there is this unmissable spark. I never bother him when he does no contact as I have a way of just allowing the space but I too now feel I am holding back because I am now starting to fear getting hurt, like he is. The attraction is impossible to ignore, I don’t know if its love, or what it is, but I am unable and he is unable to stay away for more than a month. My question is am I missing something, could he be using me, or are these feelings he has also spoke of real?

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The feelings that you have for each other are genuine and he really does love you and his own fear is holding things up from letting you both move forward. This man really needs some professional help in order to overcome the hurdles that he sees as being real. The fear he has about getting hurt again was not something that he was born with it is something that due to a past hurt he alone has decided could happen again and it makes this situations unworkable when really it could be wonderful as there are deep, deep feelings between the pair of you.   You can be with this man for the rest of your life the sad thing is that his behaviour will remain the same unless he stops being a victim to the past which is very sad for him and if he chooses to move on and deal with his fears in a positive way and accept the help that he is in need of then you can be in a very loving stable relationship indeed. If he refuses to sort these issues out then sadly things will always be as there are now but I am in no doubt that he does love you.  

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The feelings that you have for each other are genuine and he really does love you and his own fear is holding things up from letting you both move forward. This man really needs some professional help in order to overcome the hurdles that he sees as being real. The fear he has about getting hurt again was not something that he was born with it is something that due to a past hurt he alone has decided could happen again and it makes this situations unworkable when really it could be wonderful as there are deep, deep feelings between the pair of you.   You can be with this man for the rest of your life the sad thing is that his behaviour will remain the same unless he stops being a victim to the past which is very sad for him and if he chooses to move on and deal with his fears in a positive way and accept the help that he is in need of then you can be in a very loving stable relationship indeed. If he refuses to sort these issues out then sadly things will always be as there are now but I am in no doubt that he does love you.  

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