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We have had a relationship of 14 years but he does not want to commit to me in living together or getting married. For the last 6 years it has been very painful at times as he can be very cold and aggressive. We have grown up as a family and a couple of grandchildren between us. We can be very good together or it can be very bad which hurts an awful lot. Why does he not want to commit?

Angie
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Firstly I do believe that this man does love you, however it does not matter how much he is in love with you this is not a man that wants to commit as he does not see the importance of this although it means a lot to you. In this man’s mind he feels that he has no need to commit to keep you, he knows that you are in love with him and he can do anything he wants within reason and you will not leave him. He does not appear to think that you will end the relationship. This man likes the situation as it is as it suits him. If you wish to be with this man for the rest of your life then sadly it will be as it is now and I do not for see commitment in the future sadly as he will not change his mind. The main thing is that you do actually get along very well for most of the time and the good times do outweigh the bad, try to think of what you do have in this relationship and not what is missing as this man will not change regarding his opinion of commitment as he truly feels there simply is no need.

Angie
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Firstly I do believe that this man does love you, however it does not matter how much he is in love with you this is not a man that wants to commit as he does not see the importance of this although it means a lot to you. In this man’s mind he feels that he has no need to commit to keep you, he knows that you are in love with him and he can do anything he wants within reason and you will not leave him. He does not appear to think that you will end the relationship. This man likes the situation as it is as it suits him. If you wish to be with this man for the rest of your life then sadly it will be as it is now and I do not for see commitment in the future sadly as he will not change his mind. The main thing is that you do actually get along very well for most of the time and the good times do outweigh the bad, try to think of what you do have in this relationship and not what is missing as this man will not change regarding his opinion of commitment as he truly feels there simply is no need.

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