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I'm friends with a guy at work, we hit it off as soon as we met. We started working for the company within 2 weeks of each other, both of us were approached to work there rather than applying. We have so much in common and we can talk for hours, sometimes it feels like fate has brought us together. We have kissed (after a few drinks) but not mentioned it since, I really like him and am sure it's mutual but he carries a lot of baggage from his past which has made him very guarded. I'm too scared of rejection to suggest we meet out of work and we live some distance from each other so I wouldn't just bump in to him outside of work! Sometimes I feel we have a real soul mate connection but would hate to lose his friendship if we had a relationship and it didn't work. I'd love some guidance on what to do (if anything) my intuition tells me we will be together but if it's felt that a relationship is off the cards or wouldn't work it would make it easier to try to let go. Thank you x

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This man does have a lot of emotional baggage and it is likely that you are the first person that he has had such a strong connection with since he has had bad luck in his love area. He too cannot explain the way he is feeling right now but the connection that he has with you is really strong and in some ways it does scare him a little, this is why he is so guarded. As hearts travel from one relationship to another, it is only natural that we pick up some emotional baggage however some are far worse than others and the baggage that this man has is quite severe. In a way this man has set boundaries in his head to protect himself so that he cannot get hurt again and at times there is a danger of him rejecting someone that are in fact good for us. Different kinds of men respond to emotional baggage in many ways. The important thing to remember with this man is that the emotional baggage is only a turn off ''initially''. I do see that if you wish to be in a relationship with this man it can progress as he is most certainly attracted to you. The key to this whole situation will be patience and as long as you can let him take his time I do see that he will wish to be with you in a relationship and he will be able to let go of most of the past and there is a relationship that can work. To conclude this man will talk about past issues when he is ready and your patience and understanding of this will really pay off and you can have this man in your life on a loving and romantic level.

Angie
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This man does have a lot of emotional baggage and it is likely that you are the first person that he has had such a strong connection with since he has had bad luck in his love area. He too cannot explain the way he is feeling right now but the connection that he has with you is really strong and in some ways it does scare him a little, this is why he is so guarded. As hearts travel from one relationship to another, it is only natural that we pick up some emotional baggage however some are far worse than others and the baggage that this man has is quite severe. In a way this man has set boundaries in his head to protect himself so that he cannot get hurt again and at times there is a danger of him rejecting someone that are in fact good for us. Different kinds of men respond to emotional baggage in many ways. The important thing to remember with this man is that the emotional baggage is only a turn off ''initially''. I do see that if you wish to be in a relationship with this man it can progress as he is most certainly attracted to you. The key to this whole situation will be patience and as long as you can let him take his time I do see that he will wish to be with you in a relationship and he will be able to let go of most of the past and there is a relationship that can work. To conclude this man will talk about past issues when he is ready and your patience and understanding of this will really pay off and you can have this man in your life on a loving and romantic level.

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