Can I ever be with him

Hi Angle, I have just left a very long term relationship and don't know how to move on. I did everything with my partner and feel like I've lost my best friend. I want to embrace the freedom of my new life and hopefully attract a wonderful new partner in the near future who I can share all my dreams with. I hope there is someone out there for me. I have a lot of love to give and passion for travel and adventure and helping others. I truly care about others. Can you give me guidance on how to move on, make the best of everything and attract a soulmate? L&L xx

Hiya I've not had a very good time these past few months, well years I should say! Me and my partner split, he is living with his mother now. He says he will fix himself and come back but I'm scared that things will go back to how they were. Can you help me please, are things going to get better with him, will he stay loyal?

I have been working with a company for nearly 2yrs. I was happy to work in the position I was in, I was suddenly thrust into senior management and have been asked to carry out certain task i.e. restructuring. Although I think I am doing well, I am afraid that my director may not see this. She does however thank me at the end of the day for my contribution but I just worry if she really means this. Nearly all the staff comes to me for advice and direction, as they are very negative towards the other manager who appears to be more forceful and confrontational with the staff. Perhaps they see me as a soft touch. Anyway I am just no sure if I am made for such a position. Clearly I should not think in this way but in my last job the manager there broke my confidence and self-esteem, hence why I have these doubts and feelings. Help please.

It was really unfair of this company to throw you into a role that you are unsure of but I am being shown that they are happy with you and the work that you do. The reason that the staff come to you for advice is because you are far more approachable and you are more of a people's person unlike the other manager who they do not see as being able to go too for anything at all they are at times quite scared of her and her reaction to anything that they may choose to ask her.

A lot of your anxiety/feelings are down to flash backs from what has happened in the past which is only natural but I am not being shown that this is about to happen again. You have covered this position very well but it is not really 'you' and if you can see if you can go back to your old job where you were far happier.

Should I rent a flat for my son so that he can get away from the horrible situation he is in or will the young man causing all the problems be removed soon.

The problem with the young man in question is he is not willing to change at all and it is still going to take a long time to get him removed and as long as your son is happy for you to rent a flat for him then I really can see that this is the best solution. Your son is totally fed up with the way he has to live and will be really happy with your generous offer. Your son can then get his life on track.

I've been in a relationship for 17 years and I have the most wonderful, kind, caring and considerate partner yet 3 years ago I cheated and it has had a devastating impact on both of us. We separated and came back together 12 months ago and we are now at crisis point again because although I love her very much and we have a soulmate connection, I just can't seem to reconnect intimately and this is having a terrible effect on both of us. We have a very strong bond, we are the best of friends and enjoy each others company but for me there is something missing and this has led to me questioning where we go from here. Neither of us can seem to find the strength to walk away. We are both emotionally exhausted, depressed, low in self-esteem and insecure. Despite everything we are still trying to support each other through our pain but it is becoming more difficult. We share a home and neither of us can afford to move out. I just wondered if you could see a light at the end of this very dark, long tunnel and a happy resolution. Love and light x

This has been a really difficult situation and also lots of, many emotions involved here. The fact that you cheated on your partner has had a real detrimental effect on the relationship that you once had. Your partner has found it difficult to come to terms with what has happened. This 'wound' can be healed, the problem is that she does not trust you (and with good reason). It would be wise to figure out what her and your needs are and then decide if these are compatible with this in mind I sense you are going to make headway together. I am being shown that you can get past this and once again have a healthy and romantic relationship.

Hi Angie, I have been single for over 3 years. Will I meet a new man? I have joined dating sites and I go out but struggle to meet anyone decent. I am 55 years of age. Xx

Hi,

I can see that this has been a frustrating time for you and the three years on your own seems to have been a time when you have really got to know yourself and what you are looking for which is really good. The dating sites are O.K. but I am not being shown that this is where you are going to meet the man that you are supposed to be with, but you will be asked out on a few dates all the same. There is a new man for you of which is around your age and also young at heart, he seems to be have also been on his own for some time now (I feel that his wife passed away). This man you seem to meet on a social event and he wants very much the same as you. He will appear during the warmer months and it all happens when you are least expecting it and about to give up on the idea of meeting a new man.

This man is trustworthy, and you will be attracted to him, there are some lovely times for you this year.