Can I ever be with him

I have recently met a man on holiday who I am besotted with, is there a future as I have massive trust issues and don't know if he us being honest with me, he says that he wants to be with me and knows we will be together. Can you see a future with us? Thanks

The trust issues are going to cause concern within this relationship and this new man will try hard to convince you that he is trustworthy to be fair the trust issues would affect any relationship that you entered into unless you choose to try to overcome them. This man has told you the truth when he says that wishes to spend his future with you and I am being shown that he is genuine, it would be wise to try to overcome your fears and just go with the flow as I can see he will do everything that he can to make you feel secure and things can really work out for you both.

I have been married for 14years & have children. I don't trust my partner & don't want to be with him. I have told him this; however he is not taking me seriously. I have spoken to a solicitor & am starting the process of divorce. Do you see him leaving the house & will I get divorced from him?

I can see that this is not going to be an easy time for you but your mind is well and truly made up that this marriage needs to end, I sense that the process of this divorce will make him realise that you do mean business he will find it hard to accept but in time he will, and he will leave the marital home once he knows that the divorce really is final, he will leave it until the last minute to do so. I feel that this man will not wish to be on his own for long and he will move on to be with someone new, whilst I sense that you will spend some time just getting to know yourself again before you get involved with anyone else.

Right now I am trying to leave preschool teaching because of abysmally low pay and terrible working conditions. What kind of job do you see me getting next and when? Thank you so much for your answer.

I can see that you have been unfortunate to be working where you are as it is particularly bad, and this has put you off the preschool work altogether, there is new job for you but it is not until the early part of 2016 timings are most difficult to predict but as a guideline I sense that you will have a new job before Easter. I sense that you will still be working around children however as you do have a change of heart due to the fact although you will apply for various different jobs you do not seem to get a job offer in an alternative field. The next job that you have does hold a level of responsibility and you will have more control as to what goes on, and the pay is much, much better. There is progress for you indeed, but not working with children is something that right now I am unable to see you will get away from at this time.

Hi, I hate my best friend’s boyfriend but I don’t want to lose my friend over it. What can I do to resolve this problem?

It is a shame that you dislike this man but I sense that she really does like him, in order not to lose her friendship it would be wise not to comment how you view this man as she thinks very differently of him than you and it would only drive a wedge between you and then potentially you could lose her friendship. 

The only way forward right now is to try to spend time with her on your own when he is not around and not to get into conversation about him wherever possible. Your friend would be upset that you do not like him and she would not understand, so it may be wise to be as tactful as you can. I do not sense that this is going to last with her boyfriend so be prepared to not criticise him at that time but just be there for her.

I would like to know whether I will reconcile with my ex even though he claims to have moved on with someone else less than a month after our break up.

I can see that this has been a really difficult time for you and there is a new woman in his life this is true. The new relationship that he is in is not going to last but it seems to be months and months away before they part company. During this time I do see that you are going to pick up the pieces and your ex is going to be much less important to you than he is a present. There is a new male showing up in your life and he is different from your ex. The new man truly cares about you and will want to be in your life and stay in your life. The problem that all the progress that you have made since the split seems to have drifted away. You’re panicky, angry and feel so betrayed; so disposable and also feel as though you have been replaced by his new woman. I can also sense that you feel all your friends people that you know are getting on in their lives apart from you. The fact that he has moved on so quickly is upsetting but in his head he does feel that he has made the right decision for him. Time for you now to heal and eventually you will realise that he was not the one for you.

I am dating a girl for the last month now, it’s very intense and romantic, before that we were best friends for close to a year. She says she loves me to death and we plan to marry in the future, we have taken vows as well, her family doesn’t like me and she has gone back to her home country. I’ll even be in the same country but in different cities. Will she continue to love me? Will this relationship progress or will her family separate us? I sometime doubt her loyalty towards me, which I know is wrong.

This lady has told you the truth regarding her feelings for you and she loves you very much. The family issues are going to be difficult but they have not got a real reason as to not like you. Her family will most certainly try to talk her out of marrying you, this relationship will progress and I do see that she will stand up against her family but it will be tough on her for several months. I am being shown that she loves you unconditionally but the pressure from family does make it rather difficult for her as she is totally torn. In time and will be some time ahead her family will come to realise that you treat her well and this is really true love and there will be some form of acceptance there are some happy times ahead of you.