Can I ever be with him

Hi, I have a deep feeling that my friend has moved on he went on holiday last week and I haven't heard anything since does he still care about me?

I do feel that you will hear from your friend again soon and he has not moved on but he does have other people that he also likes to spend time with, there will be contact from him and he will tell you all about his holiday, he appears to be have been rather busy sorting out a few things since he has returned from his break and he seems to be under some form of pressure. 

This is not someone who would just cease contact, if there were any issues at all then he would explain his reasons as to why he can no longer stay in touch with you, but I am not being shown that this is the case.

My son told me that he does not like my current partner which is upsetting for me. I told my partner and he was very upset as he could not understand way. I don't want this to come between us and now feel trapped in a triangle, what can I do to change the situation?

The dislike your son has for your current partner is almost a way of staying loyal to his father which also means that his father is not displaced. Although this is rather hurtful for your current partner that your son has decided that he does not like him it would be best if he were not to push it right now and knows when to back off.

This situation will resolve itself but it will take time and patience deep down your son does like your partner and they can build up a strong bond I am not being shown that you will be caught up in an emotional triangle for very long. Your son has no real reason to dislike your partner and very slowly the relationship between them will build up and you can start to relax again. The key factor is patience with this matter and it will all turn out alright in the end.

I love the sea and I would love to live near the sea again. I find it therapeutic and calming. Can you see me living by the sea in the future? Is there any chance I could live abroad, even if only part of the year?

Living by the sea is almost like a way of life and this can make your home tranquil and peaceful.  The sea is almost a moving canvas and also the way that nature intends it to be. I do see water around you in the future, but it seems to be a few years yet. This is going to be a really good move for you of which you will never regret. There is a country that you will be very much drawn too and you just ''have to go'' and this is where you decide to take up residence. It looks to be a permanent move, rather than a move for part of a year. In the future, you do get your wish.

Since a very young age I have been overweight, or morbidly obese. Apart from eating can you see if there are any past life issues causing this addiction or childhood issues? I’ve been on diets but it returns, had lap band but that wore a hole in my stomach and I needed to have it taken out.

I can see that there are some underlying issues from your past life that seems to affect your weight, this looks to be connected to a dark haired male and he was not a nice man at all. I do sense that you were often hungry and had to scavenge around for food, this man seemed to prefer boys to girls and you had one sister and three brothers in a past life the boys were treated very well indeed and the girls either had no food or just the leftovers sadly. This is what I sense is a root cause of your weight problems of which is rather challenging for you. In order to really sort this out as it is all in your sub conscious mind have you thought of any alternative therapy such as regression that will bring all these issues out?

I do see that in the future with a lot of help and determination you will lose weight, and go into a department store and buy some really nice outfits, you will not be tiny however but I can see you being well proportioned so much so you do feel good about the way you look and others will offer you compliments.

After 16 years bringing up my son with autism and devoting all my time to his needs he is now in a residential setting. My ex lives abroad and has no interest in our son. I have brought him up virtually alone. I divorced in 2008 and have not had a relationship since. My ex also had Asperger’s syndrome and was uncaring and had no interest in a physical relationship during our marriage. I would love to be in a caring, romantic relationship with somebody warm and happy. I’m afraid of getting mixed up with womanisers and men who don't tell the truth. Is there anybody for me and will I ever be a grandma

Firstly you are a brilliant mum and you have done so well in bringing him up to the adult the he has become. There is a new man for you who I feel that you meet when you are out on a social occasion this man is a very kind and considerate man and he will admire of how you have coped with the difficulties of how life has been for you. I can see that this man is no womaniser and he is a good soul that has a great respect for women in general.

This new man is very different to your ex and it will take you some while to learn to trust someone else but in time life does start to get much sweeter. 2015 looks to be a year where the start of love really blossoms. There is also a small child around you in the future who is the love of your life and is a right little chatterbox! Your aspirations of what you are wishing for will come to fruition soon.

We have had a relationship of 14 years but he does not want to commit to me in living together or getting married. For the last 6 years it has been very painful at times as he can be very cold and aggressive. We have grown up as a family and a couple of grandchildren between us. We can be very good together or it can be very bad which hurts an awful lot. Why does he not want to commit?

Firstly I do believe that this man does love you, however it does not matter how much he is in love with you this is not a man that wants to commit as he does not see the importance of this although it means a lot to you. In this man’s mind he feels that he has no need to commit to keep you, he knows that you are in love with him and he can do anything he wants within reason and you will not leave him. He does not appear to think that you will end the relationship. This man likes the situation as it is as it suits him. If you wish to be with this man for the rest of your life then sadly it will be as it is now and I do not for see commitment in the future sadly as he will not change his mind. The main thing is that you do actually get along very well for most of the time and the good times do outweigh the bad, try to think of what you do have in this relationship and not what is missing as this man will not change regarding his opinion of commitment as he truly feels there simply is no need.