Can I ever be with him

I have lost my husband to another woman also lost my house got to rent still love my husband want him back will it ever happen x

I can see that this has been a devastating time for you loosing your husband to another woman and also your home. The relationship that he is in will not last, and at this time he will then start to have regrets of his actions towards you. This going to take a long time to happen years rather than months however, and by the time your husband decides to try and make amends with you, although it seems impossible right now you will have emotionally moved on in many ways. This really will then be his loss.

I can see that in the future there is a new man for you with dark brown hair and a great sense of humour and he will treat you well, and this is one of the reasons that you decide not to give your husband a second chance as the trust has now gone and I am unable to guarantee that he will not repeat his behaviour in the future.

I see you moving on at a later date in a very positive way and you have everything to gain and in the future you do look to be really happy and contented.

I’ve recently started having an affair, I love my husband but he doesn’t satisfy my needs anymore. Should I leave him in search of a new love or should I try and work things out?

Hi,

The main thing here is the fact that you say you still love your husband would suggest that it is well worth while working things out with him, but this other man would need to be gone out of your life in order to make things work for you both. It would be wise to be honest and open with the way you feel with your husband and your marriage in general. In a way you are lying to yourself right now and it is always easy to think the grass is greener on the other side. If you find that you cannot give your marriage the full attention that it needs then I would suggest that you are no longer in love with your husband. With some honesty and frank talking I do see that this can work out, but it will take a little perseverance on both parties to do so, the choice is yours....

Hello I’ve not long started a new job in a different country and there’s bullying going on amongst the people I work with. Will this be sorted or is it a mistake of coming here please.

I can see that quite naturally the bullying is getting you down and I sense that this has been going on long before you arrived there. It would be wise to check out the rules in the country that you are in to see if they do have bullying laws as they do in the U.K. and you may wish to contact Human Resources to report it. However, you are going to look for another job even though you have not been in this current one for too long as sadly you are not going to settle there.

The good news is that I do see a new job for you around these summer months and it is a job with good people that you work with. The bullying sadly is not going to stop where you are and the people that are being bullied are all looking for alternative employment you will find out that their turnover of staff is very large indeed.

I met a man online then met in person after 2 weeks for coffee. We both had a great time, we are both attracted to each other. Will I get to see him again and is there a potential for this to progress?

I am being shown that this man is interested in you and you will see him again. He is going to start to take a great interest in your life and start to care about the things that you like, this will be a sign at how keen he is. The more that you get to know each other the better that you will be able to tell how keen he really is on you.

The suggestion of  meeting up again will come from him, the first time that you met he was pleasantly surprised at how well you got  along and he feels that you just ''clicked". He is not a man that will rush into things so please be mindful of this.

Last of all; don’t try to force a relationship. If you were meant to be together, be patient. It will happen, he does look to be a genuine man.

Will my girlfriend and I get to work out our issues after she said that she needs time to think about things?

Your girlfriend is needing time space right now and she may not know how long it is going to take her so if you should decide to ask her I do not feel that you will really get a definite answer. In order not to be left in limbo in this situation you need to have a heart to heart talk with her and ask her what she wants in this break. Does she intend to contact you from time to time and if this is the case it would be wise for her to do the communication, if she did not contact you from time to time, it would be a good idea not to give her a hard time over it. Let it be the way that she wants it to be. She needs to miss you in order to see what she has let go of. If you were to make contact with her on a daily basis it does not give her the chance to miss you at all, she will not know what she had with you until it is gone

I can see that this is not going to be easy for you at all but at the end of the day you are being honourable by following her needs and wishes at such a painful time. I also suspect that you need space yourself. This is an important stepping stone to having a great relationship with her and overcoming the problems that you have in order to carry on with this relationship when she decides to come back to you of which I feel that she will at a later date.

Hi, I've been offered the opportunity to work abroad for the summer. It's a great opportunity but it would mean leaving my family behind. Should I go for it?

This really is a big decision, you do need to sit down with your family and decide as a family, be mindful of the fact that your separation from them is only a temporary and you may never get this wonderful opportunity again. Living and working abroad you will find the separation from your family difficult but it will be well worth it in the long term as it broadens your horizons. Your family will be there when you return and with modern technology of the day it will be easy to keep in touch with them. I can see that you will accept this opportunity and will not regret it. 

I can see that you are an intelligent woman and you know that ultimately this is your decision and this is something for you and your family will not stand in your way when you decide to say yes.