Can I ever be with him

I have split up with my boyfriend of over 7 years due to us fighting all the time, I feel like I will never be able to get over him. Can you help me?

It does not matter who dumped who it does still hurt and it can be tough to move on.
It may not happen right away but you can take steps to get over him. One thing is to try not to bump into him avoid this at all costs if you can.

It doesn't matter how successful you are at avoiding your ex, if you keep mentally reliving every fight and every good time it is no help to you at all. Busy your brain with new activities to keep from obsessing about what was.

Throw away any souvenirs from your relationship discard letters photos and any gifts that he has given you. If you're not sure that you're ready to let it go, stash it all in a box and out of sight. If you have emails from your ex delete them. If you think that there is some correspondence that you wish to save put them in a folder and plan to look at them later. The end of a relationship is always a loss.

Lastly keeping your emotions bottled up only prolongs the pain, you do need to reach out to good listeners or write it all down, the whole idea is to anger, sadness, resentment and whatever other emotions out of your system.

You will not be ready to date yet as feeling the way you do is currently blocking someone new coming into your life. It will get much better though and you will start to feel lighter and start to live again.

Hi, I’ve recently moved to New Zealand to be near family and start a new life after divorce. Will I soon be settled with a job and somewhere to live, so I can start afresh?

I am being shown that the move to New Zealand was the right thing to do for you and this is going to give you the fresh start that you are yearning for. There is much more settlement on the way for you and your job situation seems to arrive first there is a job offer for you in the near future and the month of October seems to be a lucky month for you, I do see a new home for you that you will be happy and settled in after you start your new job. You are going to meet some new people along the way and this in turn will enable you have a busy social life. There is a new relationship for you and next year looks to be favourable for this and he is very different from you ex and this time it will last.

Hi, something has happened in my relationship with M I accused him of betraying me, and I deleted him from my Whatsapp, he since replied to my accusation, and I begged for us to remain friends, I haven't spoken to him yet! But M keeps checking his whatsapp. Do you see reconciliation between us? Can we forgive and move on?

I can see that you acted impulsively and you did not really check out the true facts before you accused him of betraying you, this is the issue that he is most upset about as M I would end a relationship before contemplating getting involved with anyone else.
This is going to take a while longer yet for him to calm down so that you can have a talk in a reasonable matter. Let him make the contact to you as I feel that begging him to remain friends or otherwise he simply does not seem to want to listen to you right now as he is still rather angry and can be stubborn. I do see that this man does want to be in your life but please be mindful that this will take a few months in order to get your relationship back on track. Take all the time it needs and all will be well for the future and most of all try to trust him as he is not a man that would betray you.

Hi There, I have always suspected that my mother was psychic, but as she died when I was 21 I can't ask her any more questions. Since reciting a pagan mothers’ prayer that hangs on my kitchen wall with a lovely picture of her above it, magical things have been happening. I asked for her guidance and asked if she could lead me down the right road. I believe in symbolism and OMG there has been signs of a tenfold nature. I think she is making sure that my partner and I are going to be happy for the rest of our lives. I suffer with Bi-Polar Disorder and my boyfriend has Complex Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome. She has led me to our dream home even though the rent is too high, I have managed to negotiate a deal that suits both us and my landlord. She has guided me to my dream car. We already have our dream cat Dusty who came to my partner at the rescue centre. I have been unemployed for four years now due to my illness and have to sell my lovely health shop business, but in the last week or so she has assured me that I WILL work again and it will be something I enjoy with good revenue. Old friends of mine and hers have been popping up out of the blue and we have picked up from where we left off over 30 years ago and she has just made me feel so happy and content. After a roller coaster of a life since she passed on it seems she's giving me a hug and saying 'everything is going to be ok', now only your mother can do that and you feel better. It's absolutely fantastic and I feel my spiritual development has jumped up a peg or two. I want to make the most of this ability so I can help others. I'm a natural public speaker who puts people at ease so I feel I would be suited to such a role. I should have been killed on several occasions due to car accidents, many, many bumps on the head due to too much to drink, and near misses with the car. I believe I've been spared in order to 'spread the word'. What do you think? Kind Regards Bernice x x

Thank you for you interesting question and I agree that it is your mother who is around you and guiding you on the right pathway and it is wise to listen to her and to take on board the signs that she shows you. There is a job that will suit you in the near future and it will enable you to progress and use all your skills. Your mum will also lead you to this new and exciting job. You will be able to use your psychic skills to help others in the future and you will feel really complete, there is an interesting journey ahead of you and you will be rich in friendship and love. There is a lot of work for you to do in the near future and you will spread the word.

Will I ever get the right help I so need to move on?

Firstly it is really great that you have recognized that you have a gift and it is wise to make use of it in the best way possible. I am being shown that you are going to grow with your gift. I also see that you are going to make a profound difference in the future to others around you. You will find the right help that you need in order to move on and it is sooner than you expect it to be as it is meant to be. Slowly your life will begin to change and you will surround yourself with ''like minded'' people. New doors are going to open up for you.

Helping others is always going to be an important part of your life and you will live a life of service of which is right for you. I can see success for you and you will be proud of yourself and also others around you.

my work pattern is a roller coaster of finding a job then losing for various reasons and due to redundancy it isn't necessarily my fault -will there ever be an end to it ?

Hi,

I can see that you are rather a victim of circumstance due to your job situation currently and there is nothing wrong with your CV or the skills that you have obtained. The current situation that you are in will change for the better and I can see that there is more settlement for you. The months of September and October look to be important months for you as there is a new job for you that you find for yourself and is a permanent position. This is a job that you are more than capable of doing and it will use the skills that you are great at but there are also some opportunities to develop further if you so wish. The new job is not a long journey from home and you will be happy and contented there. To conclude I do see you in a long-term stable job in the near future so the end to the troubled time is within your reach.