Can I ever be with him
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Psychic Question
"I met a man that I instantly felt an almighty connection to. I have never been really been into relationships after coming out of a 16 year abusive marriage. I just never saw myself with anyone. Until I met him, he has never left my thoughts not even for a second in the past year. We have met and had some lovely times together, we have been intimate quite a bit, and we just click on a way where everything is forgotten. But he had major issues with a past love, he was engaged, very in love and then left days before the wedding. This means that when anyone gets close and he starts to develop feelings he pulls back and runs out of fear. But when he lets me in its amazing, until he goes missing again for a few days and then seems over happy to see me again .My question is can he or will he ever be with me properly. "
Previous Psychic Questions
Should I stay or should I go
Not sure if whether stay in a relationship with a man I love but offers no future or financial support into the relationship or move back to my parents house and start all over again?
The issue is one of compatibility and it appears that this man seems to be at ease with the way things are in your relationship and therefore, has no intention of ever changing. This in turn is not what you are looking for and the lack of financial support is a heavy one on you. If you are unable to see yourself with this man in ten years’ time bearing in mind he remains as he is now, then it is the time to move away from this situation and start a new life all of your own. It will come as a shock to your partner but even so not enough for him to make changes.
Love
Will I find a faithful kind loving man I can trust in the future?
It seems that in your past you have felt as though your trust has been betrayed and it has become hard for you to find certainty or trust in anyone at all. Trusting is a choice and it is something that you have both have to commit too. I am being shown that you will find the man that you can trust and this will be next year, he is loyal and very caring indeed, he will make a big impression on you in a short amount of time, he looks to be a water sign and you meet him at a time when you seem to be running late! Meanwhile, live life just for you and this man will appear in your life.
Betrayal or Blindness?
I would like to know if my partner with whom I have recently separated from, she walked out of my life without even a goodbye, had been unfaithful on numerous occasions which all the signs lead too. And also if I was so blinded by love that it has left me completely heartbroken and confused as to why she would do such a thing to someone who only was wanted to give her the world being the sole reason I chose to forgive her time and time again?
It appears that your partner in the past has cheated on people and had been unfaithful to yourself too. You were blissfully happy with her, she seemed unsettled and unhappy for some time before she left you but failed to be honest with you so that you could try to resolve things. It is going to be difficult for a while to trust again. I am being shown your partner had planned to leave for some while as she was feeling unhappy and she felt that the grass was greener (not that this is going to be the case) it is sad that she did not even give you an explanation as this would have at least helped you to heal. Although you may well feel as though the bottom has fallen out of your world right now there is sadly little you can do to change her mind, take time out for you to heal and find yourself again and in your own time, you are going to meet someone new that will treat you very well indeed. This really is not your fault.
Bungalow
I would like my son to be able to access a bungalow in the school grounds at his special school but this depends on 1 to 1 funding. Do you think he will move into it?
This is going to be a long drawn out process in order to obtain the result that you are waiting for. The funding is going to be the major issue here, but the good news is I am being shown that he is going to live in a bungalow and it is close to school so could well be in the school surroundings. I am shown that your son is going to be very happy indeed in his new home.
Distant Partner
I’ve been seeing this girl for about 6 months and things had been going well up until the past few weeks, when she suddenly became very distant, has she got bored with me or has she found someone else?
It appears that this lady has a history of being very keen early on in a relationship and says and does all the right things, I am not being shown that she has met anyone else but she seems to have changed her mind about wanting to be with you and she is wanting to be on her own again. It would be wise to let this person go from your life as she is capable of being with you one minute and going quiet (for no particular reason) the next, this will only get you down. I am being shown that there is going to be someone new that will not behave this way and you will also find a deep connection with and she will be consistent with her feelings and her actions this is the lady that you are really supposed to be with. The love area of your life will get better it is just that this current lady does not want the same things as you sadly.
Cheated on
I recently ended a short term relationship. My partner was an ex and we recently got back together again. However my partner was seeing someone at work and told me it wasn't serious as they both wanted different things. My partner agreed to end the relationship and I asked for this to happen before we decided to go ahead. We then started to see each other. However, after a couple of weeks it became obvious my partner hadn't ended things properly and became distant with me. She then admitted she was conflicted and couldn't decide between us. I ended it immediately as I wasn't prepared to be a second option. This has been a painful experience and I'm so hurt and betrayed. This has knocked me as I didn’t realise the depth of my feelings for her. I just wondered now if you could see a brighter future ahead and if anyone else is coming in who will truly love me as I have a lot to give the right person. Thank you for any guidance x
This has been a really tough time for you and you are going to need time out in order to recover from this, there are much better times ahead of you and 2017 seems to be your year when the love area of your life finally gets back on track. This is connected to a totally new person who is quite local to you she is honest and loyal and has had a bad experience with a past relationship so will understand if you were to be really cautious. This person is going to be like a breath of fresh air to you and your trust in women will return. This time from now until the end of the year is all about you and healing and you will then be ready for a new relationship next year and this time it really does work!
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