Can I ever be with him

Will my girlfriend get into the same uni as me?

I am being shown that this is a big concern for you and something that you are worrying about. Your girlfriend is going to have a choice of two Universities and one seems to offer her more than the one that you intend to go too, so she will be unsure of which university to take. However I am sensing that she will choose to go to the University that you are attending as she does not wish to be parted from you, your girlfriend will do very well indeed with her studies but there is a lot of hard work ahead of her.

I’ve had no contact or relationship with my family over personal choices etc. Will this change?

Although this has been a choice you made regarding your family they are saddened that this has happened. Your family have thought many, many times of getting in contact with you but seem to lack confidence that you want anything more to do with them and are very concerned about the reception they would get from you. With this in mind I am being shown that if you do wish to have a relationship/communication with them again then it would be down to you to make the first move and they will be pleased to hear from you. They are under the impression that you currently want nothing to do with them but you are capable of change.

I have applied for upcoming position in my local area. Will I be successful in getting a job and will I make it in my career.

I am being shown that you will obtain a job locally to you and this is in the near future. The job that you have applied for, it is very important that you highlight your strengths and also back them up with clear evidence, and then try to relate them to the role. The job that you get there will require some new skills that you will need to learn. This job is going really busy indeed and will keep you on your toes, I am being shown that this is a job that you will enjoy and it can take you places. The job is well paid and in the future there are other directions that you can go within the organization that.

I've come out of a relationship in March; however I seem to have these strange occurrences. Some of my ex's family have come into my work place, his Nan talked to me as if nothing ever happened, and his mom asked my Nan whether I said anything about him. His mate called me at a stupid time in the morning, and his best mate Facebook messaged me to see my version of the story. What I can't get my head around is he left me for another girl, but if his with her why are all these strange occurrences taking place. I just get the strange feeling my ex is somehow behind this, but is there are reason why all this is happening, or is it just pure coincidence?

This is not just coincidence and this man looks as though he has big regrets his decision to leave you for another female, he thought that this other woman was everything that he wanted and it seems to be she is a bit of a nightmare. Your ex has enlisted the help of "others'" in order to try to establish if you have moved on or not, the real reason being he wishes to know if you would have him back after all the pain and hurt that he has caused you and he is fearful that your answer will be no. His worst news is that you have met someone new so he realizes that time is not his side.

The current girlfriend he has he no longer has feelings for and he is feeling rather stuck but either way he has now realized he has messed things up and will need to make a big effort and be very convincing that he really is sorry for what he has done and wants to rekindle this relationship if you were to allow it. There are a lot of conversations to take place in order to get this relationship back on track if you do decide to allow him to return.

I sold my business and moved across the country to be with my partner of 15 years. I have struggled to get work for a year now (I am in my 50s). I have been studying part-time for a new career in counselling but there are still 4 years to go. I have applied to study for a GCSE in art as well next year but wonder if I am wasting my time with that.

I am being shown that you are an intelligent person and need to keep busy as you have a busy mind. Although you are feeling rather doubtful about your career in counselling I am being shown that you will complete the course and it will open up new doors for you in the future. The GCSE in art is going to become more of a relaxing hobby for you, rather than a career. There is a job for you that I am being shown is going to be part time but it is something that you are familiar with and will enjoy, this does seem to come out of the blue. Things finally do go your way and life starts to go in the direction that you wish it too, the second half of this year is better than the first.

Hi, the problem I have is my daughter's relationship with her fiancée. He is not a bad person and works hard, but my gut feeling is that they are not right for each other. They got pregnant after only meeting a couple of times through a friend and the result is our beautiful granddaughter. I just can't get this uneasy feeling out of my head that their relationship is not meant to be. He has an interfering mother whom my daughter dislikes and this can cause problems. Please help settle my mind one way or another as this really stresses me. My husband feels the same way. My date of birth is 10th Feb, 1957 at 1.25am in West Lothian, Scotland, UK. Daughter is 23rd Sept 1990 at 10.11 a.m. in Werribee, Vic, Australia and her fiancée is 7th April 1990 in Rowville, Vic Australia.

I can see how unbearable this situation makes you feel, the guys mother is a difficult woman to handle, and in fact she would not really like any woman that her son were to get involved with, as no one is good enough for her son, and this is why she causes such problems. If you have not done so already it may be an idea to talk to your daughter privately and calmly and logically voice your concerns but at the same time reaffirm your love for her and all you wish for is she is happy. Then listen to her opinion with respect. It would be wise not to allow yourself to get defensive. There really could be some positive attributes with her relationship of which you are currently unaware of. With this in mind either your anxieties will diminish of which I suspect it will or your daughter will see for herself the issues that have made you anxious and put your mind at rest.