Can I ever be with him

I work in a completely new environment to what I am used to and am having problems letting go of the past. Should I stay or go in my new job working with children. I feel very estranged and should be enjoying myself but something is not quite right or am I just going through a bad patch internally?

I was born 22/06/67 and have a strong soul connection with a man born 06/04/59. I want to know if despite a magnetic attraction, we are destined to remain in a good friendship or will it move into a relationship? Thank you very much.

I can see that this man is really fond of you indeed, and that your love for him is pure. However, it would be best to stay friends as this appears what this man is looking for and it would be better to leave it this way which will last a lifetime rather than trade the friendship in for a relationship which could just last as a moment of time. Should you choose to cross the line from friendship to relationship you would need to be smart enough to weigh all the possibilities of negative and positive you need to be totally honest and upfront with yourself. Do not ignore any underlying issues with this friendship that you have observed for example where he could be showing signs of jealousy if you notice small problems now within the friendship they will become bigger problems later with the emotional baggage added in. This man is an important and precious person in your life and to keep it this way it is best to stay as friends which will be everlasting.

I am in love with N 4/9/71 man for over 10 years now and despite No Love Commitment from him I am still Optimistic in my heart he will Take that Leap of Love Faith and want to share his life with me like starting a New Committed Love Chapter together experience life together. He said the reason he has not done so is because in 2003 I broke his trust but I have spent years saying sorry to something that has no relevance in our lives anymore. I am and have been totally committed to him for years. I am very independent woman and only want him for his love and sense of humour and unique ways. After my beautiful mother passed a year ago I realise Life is so short and want to live life to the full having a Committed Love in my life. I realise I have loved him for years yet don't have him by my side at life's everyday happy events. Will N take this leap of Love Faith and Commit to me or should I let him go as I want to share my life & be loved in a committed relationship. Appreciate if you could review my question, my birthday is approaching and I can't waste another year with no Happy Love outcome. Aquarius Woman R 27/1/1971. Thank you Love & light.

I can see that this has not been easy for you at all and it is relatively easy to restore a relationship when both partners are both willing and I can see that he seems really reluctant to do so. This man really is against any form of commitment and he is using your one mistake as an excuse for this when in fact even if you had not broken his trust in the past the result would still be the same. I am being shown that you are going to make some tough decisions this year regarding this man as he is unwilling to give you what you are looking for and I do see you stepping away from this situation. You do move on to pastures new and find a new life for yourself that give yours the love and commitment that you have so yearned for.

I have known Mr E 24/07/1970, for over a year, we were getting along then he went off with another that did not work out and now he backs being all nice and saying loving suggestion. I am scared that he will do this again just don't know what to do. Me 6.5.63

Firstly Mr E wishes that he had not let you go and he wishes now to be trusted by you, this is a lot to ask you under the circumstances, and it is only natural that you feel uneasy and scared and do not want to go through the same pain again. Mr E is being honest that he does wish to come back into your life. The main issue here is, are you willing to let the past go and forgive this man that has betrayed you. No doubt you are scared that he is not being honest with you, however, you do seem to be pretty aware of all the variables involved in this. If this man is serious as I feel it seems that he is then he will understand the undeniable trust breaking he has caused you and agree to do any work needed to try to put things back on track between you. This man appears to have had a wakeup call regarding the last female that he was involved in and this is what has changed his mind and he is sure he wishes to be with you.

I have been seeing a married man (I, too am married) and after a few weeks our partners found out and he ended it. I heard nothing for many weeks then on Christmas Eve I sent him a text wishing him a merry Christmas and he replied immediately saying "same to you" we chatted for a while but he was paranoid about his wife finding out we were texting again so we agreed to keep it to a minimal but stay friends. We both agreed we had missed each other. I now believe that only a few days after he said he missed me he has changed his number and I can no longer contact him...I am gutted as I know he cares for me...I don't know what to think anymore…

I can see that this has been a really difficult time for you and this man has got really scared that his marriage was about to end due to the fact that it had been found out about the affair. His wife does not wish to lose him and even though he still cares about you he is not able to leave her. It was the truth that he does miss you, but he has come to realize that his marriage is worth saving and the only way that he can do this was to not remain friends with you as first promised, because if his wife should find out at any time then he would lose her. He had to change his phone number at his wife's request and he did not have the courage to let you know sadly. It is now time to put this down to experience and decide what you really want out of your current marriage.

I'm not sure of my future with my present partner. We fall out all time. My family and friends don't like this man. I'm been told he is too controlling. Very jealous of me, I get on good terms with my ex. Any good advice it's making my life a miserable one. Plus my children hate him lots he treats me bad lots mind games. Thank you.