Can I ever be with him
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Psychic Question
"I met a man that I instantly felt an almighty connection to. I have never been really been into relationships after coming out of a 16 year abusive marriage. I just never saw myself with anyone. Until I met him, he has never left my thoughts not even for a second in the past year. We have met and had some lovely times together, we have been intimate quite a bit, and we just click on a way where everything is forgotten. But he had major issues with a past love, he was engaged, very in love and then left days before the wedding. This means that when anyone gets close and he starts to develop feelings he pulls back and runs out of fear. But when he lets me in its amazing, until he goes missing again for a few days and then seems over happy to see me again .My question is can he or will he ever be with me properly. "
Previous Psychic Questions
Career
I have started a new job doing something that I always enjoyed in the past. Now that I am earning money from it, I find I don't enjoy it anymore! I also feel that I am no longer doing my best and it has injured my self-esteem. Do I continue and hope things will get better or should I give it up?
I can see that money is outweighing your happiness at the moment and I can see that it is the lack of enthusiasm is making you feel that things are hopeless right now. I am being shown that you are going to look for a new job a new challenge and it looks as though there will be a new skill that you decide to learn of which you will find that you do enjoy and will also enjoy in the work place. This does not come about until much later on this year though. The job that you are doing has already run its course even though it has been rather a short period of time.
Partners
I am in a partnership at the moment, but I am very worried about how it is going. He is a dreamer and always chasing the next big thing. He doesn't treat me as his equal. He is moody. Money is a worry... Should I stay or should I go?
This is not a bad man however, he tends to come up with ideas that sound good at the time but I sense that he seems to either not fully look into things, or follow them through. Then when things do not work out the way he has dreamed of this does make him rather moody. Sadly this man is not going to change as it appears he simply cannot be realistic, and a partnership should be 50/50. I am unable to see that this man will truly stick to one thing, or even see your point of view of how his behaviour appears to make you feel very insecure indeed. It is a time now for reflection when you start to see what it is you really want out of life. I do see you take control of this situation and let him go.
Passion and career
I intend to write a novel which is based on one of my own personal experiences; I also intend to add a bit of fiction to it, it would be an intense romantic drama. Will I be successful in telling my story to a wide section of people?
I am being shown that you are very gifted with your writing, but it is going to be hard work but it will be of interest to many, many people.
This is going to take quite long time to write and there may be some setbacks initially when you try to get this published but this will only make you more and more determined. There will be success for you in the future and I am also being shown that no sooner have you finished this novel you decide to put pen to paper again as you have enjoyed it so much and it will be on a totally different subject that you suddenly choose to research. There are some interesting times ahead of you of which you will feel really uplifted and fulfilled.
Relationship dilemma
I and 27/7/1991 have been going very steady for the last 8 months now, but of late we have been having a few fights as I tend to lose my temper very often and she also gets pissed off. Will we tide over this tough time? How will the rest of the year be for us?
It appears that you are both feeling rather fed up and losing your temper is actually making the situation far worse than it actually is, the issues that you lose your temper over are really not that bad but I am being shown that she no longer feels that she can discuss things with you in order to try to resolve this current difficult time that you are both going through. Your partner has already considered walking away but this she would find difficult and is reluctant to do so.
In order to try to turn this around calmness needs to be in this relationship and with this in mind as long as the discussions are less heated then this relationship can be saved.
Career or business?
I am in a cycle where I can’t make head way starting a business as I have to work in a career and need to move on into another position or start a business. Is there any indication things might develop bit faster in the next couple of months? I worry that I am nearly 60 and feel bit weary as well. Much appreciated.
I am being shown that although starting a business is going to be hard work for you it is wise that you continue to seek the success that you deserve regarding you own business as this is where it will make you feel the happiest. Over the next few months purely down to your hard work I am being shown that things do start to move for you in a really positive way. Once this is up and running smoothly things then become far less tense as you are quietly confident and settled that things are on the up in your life. If you should decide to move into another position with a job then I sense that you would not be totally fulfilled.
Job
Hi Angie, I've been asking for promotion and was "tested" with a project since November 2015. Now it's been months and I have yet to hear anything about it, I'm starting to lose hope of getting promotion and with the stress at work I am tempted to resign and look for a job that will offer me more progress. Should I look somewhere else
I can see that this is a really frustrating situation, and the 'test' that you have done has impressed them, but it feels as though this has not been conveyed to you as yet. There is change ahead of you and it is a promotion however the stress around the work situation as a whole, even with a promotion is not going to cease. The situation that you are currently in is almost too much to deal with and I can see that you look for a new job but do not leave this existing one whilst you do so, you are going to be in two minds as to what to do as it appears that the promotion is offered to you just as you secure a new job and make your mind up to leave. The choice is very much in your hands and you do come to the right decision for you.
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