Can I ever be with him

Will I ever get out of the rut I'm stuck in and move on to better things?

Firstly never assume that you're stuck with the way things are. Typically, we all seem to go through this stage at some point in our lives. You do have the power to move forward no matter what obstacles block your path. In fact, you do have the power to follow through and make significant progress with your goals. You do have power as you do have choice. You seem to have been held a prisoner with old habits. Try to create a list of actions, and focus on what you need to do as I sense 2016 for you can be a very productive and progressive year for you.

There is good hope for you no matter how long you have been stuck in this rut and whilst change can be scary they key is to work through the fear that is the only way that you are going to increase your self-confidence and make progress. There are much better times ahead of you.

Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years and want to take things to the next level and get married. Every time I hint at this he distances himself from the situation. Will he ever pop the question?

I can see that he may well have issues with you before he decides to commit

He really does have feelings for you and there is a little something about you that I sense he wishes he could change I do not even sense that it is a big thing at all but it could be something he has mentioned in the past during a disagreement that you have had. This man also has a second reason as to why he is not keen on commitment he seems to have his mind set of the fact that deep down he feels that he does not need to commit to you in order to keep you.

This obviously is a man that you truly love and want to spend the rest of your life with. In order for him to pop the question it seems that you are going to have to firmly let him know that you cannot see a way forward with this relationship if it does not move to the next level and you will start to question of his true intentions as I sense he does not really wish to lose you, there is progress ahead of you but it will not be for some time yet.

I’m not sure what the future will bring and it is scary to think where the journey might end. Do you think I can find my way to happiness?

I am being shown that decisions that you make during 2016 is the key to you finding the happiness that you have been searching for. I am being shown that it is down to your own actions that you manage to strive forwards and you will then start to find the happiness that you have been looking for. You do not need ideal circumstances in order to move forward stay positive that you can and will be happy. You are more than capable of taking the necessary action needed, you just have to make a decision to do it and this then leads into the happiness that you are looking for.

We had 2 buyers in our team who left recently--one was asked to leave and the other one resigned due to pressure. Our big boss gave me one of their projects, one that was handled by 3-4 previous buyers before them that they all were not able to solve. Do you think this project was given to me so test me for promotion?

This is a really pressurised role and the reason that the big boss has given it to you is to see how well you can handle this role of which I sense you will overcome any obstacle in your way. This does appear to be some sort of 'test' and in time an offer of promotion will come your way but it may well be in around six months’ time. They are not willing to give you the promotion until you have really proved that this is something that you can cope with unlike the others. Success is indicated for you.

I have started a business but I don't know if I can trust my business partner. He has changed a lot in the last month and he is making me very nervous. What should I do?

Sadly, the first thing that seems to stand out with your business partner is greed and I am sensing some form of underhandedness at some stage during this partnership. It would be wise to ensure that anything linked to your joint business is water tight i.e. there is no chance of the other partner taking your half of the business from you etc. Your deep down emotions do appear to be correct and I can well understand how on "edge' this is making you feel. 

There does appear to be a split in this partnership but as a guideline could take up to six months until it happens and you will go it alone and this will also be very successful indeed, for now be on your guard and protect what is rightfully yours, your uneasiness regarding your business partner seems to be correct

I feel that I have stagnated for too long and it's time to move on with my life. I have a couple of options, one would be expensive to set up but would give a better quality of life once accomplished and I could stay in the UK. The other seems like a pipe dream but it's my life dream and something that I could happily spend the rest of my life doing. It would require leaving the UK as our policies are still 20 year behind most of the developed world but there has never been a better time to go do it than now.

I am being shown that you do need to go with your passion and the pipe dream can become reality as I can see that you will put in all the hard work that will be needed in order to achieve the success that you require. Leaving the UK will be a big wrench but this is something that you will get your head around and cope with. The opportunity is good for you right now and it may not come around again therefore, it would be wise to go with your gut feeling and you will not go far wrong. There is great progress ahead of you.