Can I ever be with him

I have always wondered about my life path and have struggled to identify exactly what it is I was called to do? I am compassionate and caring and really like helping people but haven't quite found my calling. Over the years I have had many jobs but nothing has really stood out. I am now struggling financially and can't afford to make any mistakes. I am not different or special in any way from millions of other kind and caring people but I do hope there is an organisation whose values and beliefs resonate with me and where I can finally feel I fit in? I would really appreciate any guidance around this. Thank you.

It seems that the early part of next year is a time of change for you and this will be for the better as there is a job opportunity that you will carefully consider, I sense that you will use your caring side in your new job and this will really suit your needs and it seems to be linked in some way to a charity. This may well all come about from a social event that you attend and also by a chance conversation. Your financial struggle will improve for you during 2016 and you do start to feel very happy and contented and a sense that you do 'belong' in your new job.

Hi, I currently work as a carer although I really like doing this job I was wondering if there are any career changes ahead of me? Also, what are the obstacles I am currently facing which are stopping me from moving forward?

Hi, I am not being shown any major obstacles in the way of you progressing in your career the only thing that would stand in the way of things is yourself and having the confidence to move forwards. Although you enjoy your job currently I sense that you will wish to make some changes in the next few years as you will wish to progress further with your career and this could well involve some form of studying in order to achieve this. Although you feel comfortable in the role that you are in, you do start to re-look at your life and take a different direction but I do sense that there is a caring aspect involved.

I'm currently in a job which does not fulfil me but it is a job and the people are pleasant and they like me. Should I look for a new job?

It is a shame that you are finding that your job does not fulfil you right now and it is great that you have people that like you and you get along well with. The choice has to be yours if your look for another job but I can guide you in as much I sense that you are going to be in your current role for some time to come until you do get really bored and it is then that I sense that you will look for alternative employment and this will be during the course of next year, please bear in mind however, that you may not be in a job where the people are quite so easy to get along with a I sense that the next job will be far more challenging in more ways than one. It will be a job that you will do well and enjoy but it will lack the 'personal touch' that you currently have.

I'm in love with my best friend of nearly one year. She was married to someone in the past that cheated on her. We spend all of our time together but she still reminisces about her ex, but in a negative way. I've tried telling her in the past that I like her but it hasn't progressed. Is this a one sided attraction?

I sense that your friend deep down has found it rather hard to deal with the broken marriage and she still has questions around it of which remain unanswered and it looks as though she will always be left in wonderment and may not actually get answers ever. The bond/relationship that she has with you is a very safe one and she really does love to spend time in your company, she values the friendship that you have and she is not wishing to ruin it right now by entering into a relationship with you it is too big a step for her currently. I am not being shown that this is a one sided attraction it is just something that is going to be very slow moving. This lady appears to be happy with the situation as it is right now and it will be a massive step for her to change the way this relationship is. I do see that in the future that there will be some really deep talks between you regarding emotions this is months away from now and as she gains her confidence then I do see that a relationship that is long lasting can happen for you it is just going to take a little longer than perhaps you expect.

I'm thinking of changing careers and going to study nursing, would I be able to do this as a mature student and cope financially?

I sense that this has been a real soul searching decision and in the future a new and different career looks to be very successful for you. I can see that it will be a challenge for you but there will also be great rewards. This change has been on your mind for some time and the change ahead is not a negative one. Financially, in the initial stages finances will be a little bit of a struggle but you will get some balance around this.

It is important that you make a change of career within the next twelve months otherwise this opportunity may not come around again for a very long time.

Hi there. For two years now my shop has been empty, I have refurbished it, but not been able to afford to do anything more with it at the moment in terms of buying the materials needed to make the stock and products I wish to sell. I try so hard, I think positive, I try to think of all the positive things in my life I need to be grateful for and I try not to focus on the things I’m 'lacking' at the moment. But it still doesn’t help me out of this pool of treacle that I seem to be wading in at the moment. I was hoping to get things launched this year, but I still seem to be going round and round in circles. Can you please give me any assurance or show me what I need to do! Will this happen for me, or should I abandon my dream in favour of something else? Thank you in advance for any help you are able to offer me at this most anxious time.

This has been a really difficult situation for you as I can see that you still have the drive and ambition to do well it is just that there have been a fair few obstacles in your way. There is a way forwards for you and this is also linked to someone else. There is a lady that I feel can help you out and would almost be like a silent partner as she can see that your ideas and you enthusiasm are all there, and recognizes that this can and will succeed. I do see that things will launch later on this year but only as long as you have this second person on board, the offer of help that you get will come out of the blue and purely by a chance conversation. This situation where you are feeling rather powerless right now will change for the better for you and it will be soon. Stay positive as you do have a great future with the plans that you have in mind.