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I have been in a happy relationship with my partner for the past 17 years but recently met and got involved with a new person. This person made me realise what was missing in my relationship and ignited a fire. Although I knew it was wrong I got too involved and felt such a strong connection and bond. My partner suspected I was getting in too deep and it eventually all blew up and came out. I am now in an awful situation as I still love my partner but not in the same way as before and I still want the excitement offered by this new person who is prepared to wait for me. I don't know which way to turn as I have the security and love of my current partner who is a much loved member of the family and widely respected by everyone but I cannot stop thinking about this new person who cannot offer me the same things but does offer me something new and does make me so happy in a different way. There is also a huge chemistry between us that is sadly missing with my partner and I'm not sure we could ever get this back as it has been missing for many years. Any advice would be appreciated L&L S x

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I can see that things with your current partner have been difficult for a while now and this is the reason that when a new man showed an interest in you it has all looked great and exciting. There is a great bond between you as he has made a big impression on you. Your current partner is very hurt and angry by your actions and in 'his eyes'' he has done nothing wrong to deserve this. I can see that with your partner you yearn to love him passionately the way that you need to be loved. I can see that you did not really wish to break his heart. There are feelings there, but in a different way this can be worked on if you decide to stay with him, but it will not be easy as it is almost as if you love him but are no longer 'in love' with him. You really do need to be true to yourself and it is not a great idea to compare your current partner with this new man, it is better not to rely on either of these men for your happiness you need to be happy just for you. It does look as though the thought of not having the new man in your life feels unbearable, both men are really different and can offer you very different things. If you are no longer in love with your current partner then really you are both living a lie and it would be unfair to stay in this relationship as it is stopping him from moving on and meeting someone else in the future. The new person is telling the truth when he says he will wait for you but he will only wait for so long it is not limitless. The time has come to be really truthful to yourself, although your current partner within the family, they are not the ones that are in a relationship with him and this appears to have run its natural course. Try to be logical in your thinking and you will make the right decision, there is a reason as to why you became involved with the new man, if you were really happy in your current relationship he would never have been able to entice you away in the first place.

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I can see that things with your current partner have been difficult for a while now and this is the reason that when a new man showed an interest in you it has all looked great and exciting. There is a great bond between you as he has made a big impression on you. Your current partner is very hurt and angry by your actions and in 'his eyes'' he has done nothing wrong to deserve this. I can see that with your partner you yearn to love him passionately the way that you need to be loved. I can see that you did not really wish to break his heart. There are feelings there, but in a different way this can be worked on if you decide to stay with him, but it will not be easy as it is almost as if you love him but are no longer 'in love' with him. You really do need to be true to yourself and it is not a great idea to compare your current partner with this new man, it is better not to rely on either of these men for your happiness you need to be happy just for you. It does look as though the thought of not having the new man in your life feels unbearable, both men are really different and can offer you very different things. If you are no longer in love with your current partner then really you are both living a lie and it would be unfair to stay in this relationship as it is stopping him from moving on and meeting someone else in the future. The new person is telling the truth when he says he will wait for you but he will only wait for so long it is not limitless. The time has come to be really truthful to yourself, although your current partner within the family, they are not the ones that are in a relationship with him and this appears to have run its natural course. Try to be logical in your thinking and you will make the right decision, there is a reason as to why you became involved with the new man, if you were really happy in your current relationship he would never have been able to entice you away in the first place.

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