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I am having a baby but my husband is not the father, do you think i should tell him and come clean? The father is actually his brother.

Angie
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Hi Sarah, I can see that you current situation is really tricky and to keep quiet about this means that no one will be the wiser your husband will bring the child up as his own and there will not be a family rift as this child belongs to your brother in law, which will cause a major upheaval and pain in the family. The only issue with this is you will always be worried that this secret will come out as they often do years and years later. You need to ask yourself whether your brother in law will always keep quiet the fact that you have slept together, if there were to be a family row at any point in the future then this could come out, plus your brother in law also has a right to know that he has fathered a child. I feel that if you do not tell the truth now then the risk of this coming out is a strong possibility and also if your child when older should find out that the ''Dad'' that they thought is their dad is in fact not the case, it will have a devastating affect on them, and the child could stop trusting you. It goes without saying that to come clean is going to be a very brave thing to do but I feel that if you leave this secret and keep it quiet this will always make you feel very uneasy indeed. You do run the risk of loosing your marriage but something has to be wrong in the first place for you to look towards another man anyway and it would be wise to look deeply into your marriage, this is going to come as a great shock to your husband as he has two issues here, the mistrust of yourself and his brother and it may well pull the family apart. I feel that to ''come clean'' now is the best option or you do run the risk of living a lie for many years to come and to tell the truth would eliminate having to do some difficult explaining to your child at a later date. To conclude I feel that to tell the truth is the best option and all people concerned can make decisions based on the facts of where you can go from here, your husband will be the one that will suffer the most due to the betrayal he will need time to get his head around all this, and of course he will be very angry indeed. This is very, very sensitive indeed and although your husband will be upset once he has got his head around it all he may be able to give you a second chance and sort the marriage out, and then he can decide how he wishes to deal with his brother. Bright Blessings

Angie
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Hi Sarah, I can see that you current situation is really tricky and to keep quiet about this means that no one will be the wiser your husband will bring the child up as his own and there will not be a family rift as this child belongs to your brother in law, which will cause a major upheaval and pain in the family. The only issue with this is you will always be worried that this secret will come out as they often do years and years later. You need to ask yourself whether your brother in law will always keep quiet the fact that you have slept together, if there were to be a family row at any point in the future then this could come out, plus your brother in law also has a right to know that he has fathered a child. I feel that if you do not tell the truth now then the risk of this coming out is a strong possibility and also if your child when older should find out that the ''Dad'' that they thought is their dad is in fact not the case, it will have a devastating affect on them, and the child could stop trusting you. It goes without saying that to come clean is going to be a very brave thing to do but I feel that if you leave this secret and keep it quiet this will always make you feel very uneasy indeed. You do run the risk of loosing your marriage but something has to be wrong in the first place for you to look towards another man anyway and it would be wise to look deeply into your marriage, this is going to come as a great shock to your husband as he has two issues here, the mistrust of yourself and his brother and it may well pull the family apart. I feel that to ''come clean'' now is the best option or you do run the risk of living a lie for many years to come and to tell the truth would eliminate having to do some difficult explaining to your child at a later date. To conclude I feel that to tell the truth is the best option and all people concerned can make decisions based on the facts of where you can go from here, your husband will be the one that will suffer the most due to the betrayal he will need time to get his head around all this, and of course he will be very angry indeed. This is very, very sensitive indeed and although your husband will be upset once he has got his head around it all he may be able to give you a second chance and sort the marriage out, and then he can decide how he wishes to deal with his brother. Bright Blessings

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