Can I ever be with him
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Psychic Question
"I met a man that I instantly felt an almighty connection to. I have never been really been into relationships after coming out of a 16 year abusive marriage. I just never saw myself with anyone. Until I met him, he has never left my thoughts not even for a second in the past year. We have met and had some lovely times together, we have been intimate quite a bit, and we just click on a way where everything is forgotten. But he had major issues with a past love, he was engaged, very in love and then left days before the wedding. This means that when anyone gets close and he starts to develop feelings he pulls back and runs out of fear. But when he lets me in its amazing, until he goes missing again for a few days and then seems over happy to see me again .My question is can he or will he ever be with me properly. "
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Dear Angie, I've been out of work for almost a year now. I’ve been applying for loads and loads of jobs but with no success. Will you please try to see if this difficult time will end soon? Will I be working soon? Thank you.
The key to obtaining a job seems to be landing a temp job, this will give you a pay check and also give you back some confidence that I sense you have lost of late. I am being shown that a temp job will allow you to build up some more connections but also make sure you make them aware you are looking for something permanent. There seems to be a link to a temp job that leads to something more permanent for you. If you can expand your horizons then I see a much better way forwards for you and the springtime seems to be when you are feeling more positive about your working life as things are beginning to get back on track.
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I'm finding it difficult at work to deal with my boss. We're a two woman team and she holds back work from me, communicates ineffectively and can be irritable and undermining. It's very disheartening working alongside her at times and if I were to address these issues with her it would feel more of a character assassination and unproductive. I have addressed issues in the past but it seemed to get me nowhere. How do I manage her behaviour day to day? Any tips? I'm looking to leave soon anyway, but in the interim I want some advice on the best way to work with her moving forward, thanks.
I am being shown due to your boss you are feeling undervalued and I do sense that I would be ideal if you could have the courage to speak up rather than suffer in silence for fear of an awkward conversation. When you do approach her approach her with respect and with a genuine desire to make things work better. You can open the door to a new level of trust and also owe it to yourself and your boss to voice your concerns. Engage in a conversation of how things could be improved. Sometimes you have to go out on a limb and do things where the risks are high. The situation that you are in will remain as it is unless you try again to say something and you will have least voiced your concerns once more it may not change a thing but at least you will know when you hand in your notice due to the way she treats you that you at least gave her one last chance...
Career
I am a postgraduate student, I have cleared all my papers and my research as well in Oct 2015, I failed one of my resit exams and the university has decided to give me one more chance in May 2016 to clear that paper and award my degree in Feb 2017. I have made an appeal to the University to exempt me from giving the exam again and award me my degree this year itself in July. Will the university grant me an exemption? Will I get my degree this year?
The University has thought long and hard about their decision and offering you another chance in May 2016 they feel is being fair to you. I am sorry but I am not being shown that they will agree to exempt you from giving the exam again. You will get your degree but not during 2016. They will (if you ask) discuss their reasons for this this is not a decision that they have taken lightly and they do have your best interests at heart, the decision that they have made seems to be the final one and it is your choice should you wish to re-sit your exam although it will be reluctantly however, the result remains the same just a little later than intended, and you will get your degree awarded.
Opportunity
This year has been crazy regarding work, I feel like it has been like a roller coast at times. I have been offered a opportunity which could be very rewarding. Should I take it and will it work...
The new job opportunity is a good one and it is well worth considering for various reasons, there is still a lot of hard work involved however, the rewards will be very rewarding and beneficial to you. It seems that this opportunity will either not present itself again or it would be a long time before it would do so. This new adventure will work and I can see you doing well. Great things are in front of you and you will be happy with the decision that you make and will not look back.
Wil he get over his wobble?
After a happy 9 month relationship he had a bit of a wobble and took a step back asking to stay friends? How long will he need before he comes back forward into dating again?
I can see that this man got really scared by the feelings that were growing for you and this was not something that he has ever felt so strongly before, at the moment he chooses not to want to be in a relationship therefore, it may be an idea to see what happens being friends. I do sense that this man will become more settled over the next few months and will decide that he wants a relationship rather than a friendship. He wants to stay 'friends' at this moment in time due to the fact he does not really wish to let you go. Let this man take his time and I sense that there will be a good outcome for you in the future.
Will he get in touch?
I have been talking to this guy and we have had a good friendship he told me he can’t be with me due to the fact his mum may not accept me. He is going abroad soon and he had not been in touch I just would like to know whether he will be getting engaged or married whist his out there and if he will ever get back in touch with me yes then when?
This man sadly cannot find a way forwards with you due to the way how his mother is and he seems to be under a lot of pressure at the moment I am not being shown that there is another woman around him, his family are encouraging him to get married to someone of their choosing. I am being shown that he will be in contact with you again and at the time he will be feeling rather frustrated and low and it will be during the first half of 2016 as a guideline, however, it does appear around this time that you will be feeling rather different regarding this man as you have started to move on with your life.
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