Can I ever be with him

Hi, my girlfriend never wants s to go out any more and it's putting a strain on my relationship with her. We've been together for 2 year and for the first 6 months we went out all the time. I really want to go out and have some fun but she never wants to any more. We probably only go out once every 6 months. Can you help?

I am sorry you and your girlfriend have been having difficulties in encouraging her to go out to mutual social outings. Solving this will depend on different factors. If she goes out to work then she is confident in doing this and it may be wise to ask her directly why she should choose to stay at home than go out with you. Your girlfriend may well prefer going to a different kind of place or an event such as the theatre, cinema or for a meal. If she is reluctant to do any of these things then it will be back to basics and encourage her to go out with you shopping or even a walk as you need to establish if his is an anxiety problem, or simply she now has you in her life in a stable way and she is rather complacent and she is now under the impression that she does not need to work at this relationship

I do see that this situation be resolved and in the near future, as it would be wise to encourage her to go on very short trips out with you, try to set something up with her a week or so in advance, that way she can plan in her head about going out. I can see that she seems to have lost confidence and she is stuck in a rut this is going to pass for you and she will start to go out with your more, this will turn around in your favour and I do see a better social life ahead together.

Hello, I feel like I'm at a bit of a crossroads in life and don't know which way to turn. I could choose the path I currently walk of security but boredom or I could take a gamble and start a new path of uncertainties but excitement. I need guidance. Love and Light

Hello

I am being shown that you feel that life is changing and you are also ready for a change you are ready to venture into a new chapter. There appears to be some fear over changing but if you do not make these changes then the boredom will just continue for you and this not something that you wish for. Life's crossroads will provide you with a new opportunity.

I am being shown that you do need to move with the changes instead of going against them and you will be successful in finding the stability and the happiness that you so dearly want and need. It is wise to trust your deepest feelings.

We all know, deep within ourselves, what we need to do - what we know, how to think, when to trust. I can see that by taking on a new challenge you will become stronger for having taken the risqué. All you need to do is believe in yourself and I can see that you have an interesting and successful journey ahead of you. Be brave and take the gamble of moving forward.

My husband is getting a lot of readings recently and I overheard one the other day and it sounded like he was flirting quite a lot with the reader. Is he having an emotional relationship with this reader and will it develop into something more? Should I confront him?

Hello,

I can see that the conversation that you over heard has concerned you, the person on the other end of the phone did have a strong psychic connection with your husband and this is why they seemed to get along well. Your husband found his chosen psychic easy to talk too and she was trying to let enable him to see a pathway forward as there were a few questions that he wanted answers too.

I am being shown that if you were to confront him regarding what you heard he would really go on the defence as he is not going to see your point of view as to why you are upset about his conversation and he will say that it was harmless fun and he does not even know her which is true, as he has never met her. I am sensing that the reader that he spoke to already has a male around her. I am not being shown that this is going to develop into anything more and it would not be wise to mention this incident. The reading that your husband had did leave him empowered, clear and felt that he was able to make informed choices. The reader managed to help him navigate his way through life.

I have recently moved and I'm finding it hard to make new friends in my area. I am very spiritual and find it hard to connect with people from my area as no-one seems to have a spiritual nature in this town. Can you offer any advice?

Online forums and local communities are great way to start off making new friendships, have a look into courses that are on offer at your local college and if you are able to enrol, there will be people there with the same interests as you.
There may also be workshops or seminars, that you could look in to and I can see that this will allow you to meet other people who are also interested in personal development.
Existing clubs and communities are a great way to quickly meet like-minded individuals. See each community as a central hub that attracts people with the same interests. A spiritualist church would also be a good place to start. The summer months do look as though you have made a few friends that you can relate too and this is just the start, you do start to meet trustworthy friends.

The key to meeting new people is to be pro active and join something that is of interest to you, you will be meeting these people soon now and then you will find that you are far more settled that you currently are.

Try not to worry about meeting new people as this is going to happen for you and you will feel as though you "belong" in the near future.

I lost my farther this year and we were never really that close, after he died I was helping clear out his things and found a book of all his favourite moments with me. It broke my heart and it made me wish I had got to know him more while he was alive. Can I contact him in the afterlife? I want him to know that I love him.

I can see that the finding of the book has had a big impact on you and it really did make you realise how precious you were to your father even though he may not have always expressed this as much as he should have done, your father really did love you, he already knows deep in his heart that you loved him too.

When we are dreaming we are open to communication from deceased loved ones.

It is easier for our loved ones to ''meet us halfway'' when we are asleep, your father may well come to you in your dreams. If you wish to contact him you can always ask a medium to try to do this for you and you can do this by visiting a spiritualist church, there are also mediums on our Psychic Sofa website. Please bear in mind that your father will only come through to you when he is ready. Communicating with your father is like building a bridge of energy. In order for you to make contact, someone, or both parties has to build a bridge. In some cases recently deceased spirits want to build the bridge but they’re not yet fully comfortable in their new energetic state and cannot, so please bear this in mind.

It is likely that your father will show you that he is around you as items in your home get moved or misplaced, this will be of great comfort to you.

Your father will come through to you when he is ready too and I do see that you will get the opportunity to tell him that you love him, but remember he does already know.

I recently had a group of gypsies come to my house wanted to re-pave my drive. When I turned down their offer a lady from the group said she would put a curse on me if I didn't agree. I quickly closed the door on them and thought no-more of it till the next day when I started experiencing bad pain in my back. Is it because the gypsy lady cursed me and if so how do I do I remove the curse?

Many people are wary of Gypsies believing that they practice hypnotism or magic and they are correct to some extent. Although gypsy curses are sudden and powerful, they are rare. The gypsy that came to your house was quite clearly trying to get you to have your drive done and she was using fear. I am not being shown that the back pain was due to any curse that she put on you, it was just coincidence that this in fact happened to you.

To conclude, if a gypsy bothers you in the future, try not to get into any conversation with them, this also includes avoiding eye contact. In other words don't talk to her don't pay attention to her at all. This is how you can protect yourself from gypsy magic. If a gypsy insists on telling your fortune, you can say this, “I can tell fortunes myself.” this will make them back off. You can also put a mirror in a breast pocket and this will reflect what could come your way if you are at all worried. 

I really do not see that you have anything to fear from your recent experience.