Can I ever be with him

Hello, A few months ago I moved house, the rest of the family felt right at home straight away but I don't feel like this house is my home. I also feel like there is some sort of presence in the house that is making me feel uneasy. Is my home haunted? If so, how can I get rid of it? Will I ever feel at home here? My family is happy so I don't want to uproot them again. Please help. Thank you

Hi

I can see that there is a spirit in your home but it is not of anyone that would bring harm to you, this is of an elderly lady and she wanders around your home due to the fact that as far as she is concerned it is her home and not yours, she looks on you as being the intruder and this is why you are the one picking up on her and feeling uneasy and unsettled, this elderly lady does not really realise how bad this makes you feel.

The best way to deal with your spirit is to be confident, if you talk to her talk to her in a no nonsense ''tone'', but not in a mean way, let her know that it is your home now and it is time for her to leave. This spirit is a left over spirit that has decided she likes to be in your house, and it if this does not work (but I feel sure that it will do) you can always go to the next level and contact your local church.

Once your spirit has vanished then it would be wise to cleanse your house, so she does not return it would be an idea to burn sage, this is said to clear any negative energy burning incense is considered a purifying force in many cultures. 

Ring a bell in each corner of your home. This is said to break up the negative energy and encourage positive energy. It is important to do this more than once as negative energy can come from many different sources. Physically clean your home. This will help to create an atmosphere of cleanliness and to discourage this energy from coming back.

Do you believe in love at first sight? I recently meet someone on the tube in London and although we only shared a moment I feel like I may have met “The One” I think he felt the same way, we shared a kiss but I had to get off at the next stop. I’ve been getting the same tube for over 2 weeks now in the hope that I’ll see him again but with no success. I have been regretting getting off that tube ever since. Do you think I’ll see him again or have I missed my chance at love?

Hi, I recently lost a loved one but they are deep in my heart so I feel like they will always be with me. I believe in reincarnation to an extent and want to know if you see our energies meeting again in another life? Thank you,

Loosing someone who is a great love in your life is always very hard to deal with. It is best to take a day at a time in order to try to heal from this, as there is no easy solution. Every day that goes by does not make you erase them from your memory, but it will make it slightly easier to cope with your loss.
Your energies will meet again, but it will take some time. It will be when you least expect it.
The soul will be reborn into a new life and the soul can appear incarnate in humans, animals or plants as it works its way toward an eventual escape from the cycle of birth, death and rebirth.
I am sensing that your loved one is always with you and when your energies do meet it will be simply amazing!

Hi, I believe in fate and am worried that I am fated to repeat my mother and/or fathers mistakes. My mother is an alcoholic and has been to rehab several times and my father cheated on her with multiple women resulting in a divorce. I like a drink and have been unfaithful in past relationships, I am doomed to repeat my parents mistakes or can I break the chain and have a happy life? Thank you

Firstly life is always what you make it and you very conscious that you do not wish to repeat the mistakes of your parents. As far as drinking is concerned everything in moderation but if you are worried about the amount that you are drinking, then please seek help from your GP. Scientists have come to the conclusion it can be hereditary but it is not always the case, bearing this in mind you may need to monitor it more closely than most people. Just because you mum is one who does drink to excess does not mean that it is unavoidable for you. There are many other contributory factors that can compound the issue, so just because you have an alcoholic parent, or parents, does not automatically mean you will develop the disease yourself.

As for the relationship area of your life you are very aware of the issues around your fathers behavior and the upset that it caused to the family. I do not feel that you will adopt the same behaviour it may be a concern now as you have already made mistakes which worry you and does not make you feel great about yourself. There is something inside you where you will realise this which will bring back the painful memories and this will stop you behaving this way.

If you dwell on the fact that the reason you could become an alcoholic is due to your mum or you cannot be faithful in a relationship as it is due to your dad, your are in fact correct as this is the way you mind has set itself. The best and easiest way to stop this is to train your way of thinking into knowing there really is no reason and no way that you are going to be like them, the power of the mind and thought is a wonderful thing. You have no real reason to be the same as you do have free will to say no and you will have a happy and contented life.

Hi, I believe I am being psychically attacked by a woman I know who is psychic and doesn't like me. It has started recently after a falling out. I meditate regularly and since the attacks started I am unable to reach a meditative state of mind. Is there a way I can shield myself from such attacks? Thank you

Firstly, I do feel that this woman is attacking you but remember karma has a funny way of working and it may not be for some time to come but all that she tends to send to you she will also get back on her at some stage, its is not a good or a spiritual thing to send out bad in any shape or form. In order to protect yourself, it would be wise to not have contact with this woman or go back at her at any attempts will fail and fuel the problem even further this is due to the fact that you cannot battle an inner problem with an outer one. Being the recipient of psychic attack gives us the opportunity to see the places in ourselves in which we feel inferior, unsure, weak, unsafe or unhealthy, under psychic attack, we have the opportunity to rise above our limited options of ourselves, empower our spirits, heal old wounds and take responsibility for our lives. Ending this problem is actually simple, let go of fear and negative emotions as fear and negativity give a doorway for this woman to get through. Changing how we react to this gives the attacker less power and you will in fact win on this and the attack will end. Stay as positive as you can and this is what your attacker will find very hard to handle and you will come out on top every time. You will soon be able once again to reach a meditative state of mind.

Hi, I've recently started a new job and some of the female workers there don't seem to like me. After my first week I start getting anonymous threats and insults on facebook. Is it these hateful girls in my new office and what should I do?

Hi Amanda I am sorry to hear that you are having such a difficult time right now, have a think to see what could have happened to bring this on, although in all sincerity I am not picking up that you have done anything untoward, you are just dealing with people that are ''clicky'' and they do not allow you to fit in. If you approach these people yourself to try to establish the problem even a timid approach can bring on nastiness so please bear this in mind. what you see as being polite and thoughtful can sometimes be seen by someone else as dithering and lacking in decisiveness and this can send less patient people into paroxysms of irritation! The fact that you are getting threats, these are psychologically and ethically difficult to deal with and it would be wise to take action, you could either report to Facebook, or inform the police , they will no doubt ask you who you think it could be, so it would be best to mention your new job and animosity that you are experiencing. At this stage you do not know if the two are connected, therefore, it may be wise to ask one of your managers or Human Resources if you can speak to them and try to note down any events that you can recall. If you are a member of a Trade Union you could get in touch with them and ask them for advice and representation. It really would be wise to nip this in the bud as this will not improve on it's own, so to take action is the only answer. Remember thankfully it is only some of the female workers and not others, I can see that this a really distressing issue for you right now and it no doubt makes you feel anxious and low, but this will come to an end and your work place will be a much better place for you, as this behavior stops as the people concerned are dealt with, but you do need to take some form of action, do not ignore this situation in the hope that it will go away.