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Hi, myself Trish 24/08/74 and Patrick 28/10/73 have been together 18 years married 10 he went off 1 year ago to Lindsey 17/09/78 I had to leave our home and rent but house I in now is lovely I am happier kids are happy but one thing is missing Patrick will he return to our marriage or is my instincts wrong and I should give up on us thank you xx

I can see for you this really has been a difficult time and Patrick seems to have got bored of the marriage and Lindsey just happened to be around at the time. Patrick appears to be okay with his situation as it is right now, and it is not until the relationship goes sour that he will try to return to you and this will take a few more months as yet, they do seem to have their troubles but he is not willing to leave at this moment in time. When Patrick does try to return the choice will be totally yours but there is some hesitation around this as he has caused you so much pain and you will have your reservations about having him back as the trust has gone completely and you have done so well to put your life back on track alone, and the fact he returns when things go wrong for him will make you suspicious, It is going to be a really emotional time for you.

We lived together for 9 months,we constantly had fights caused because he and his ex were still in close contacts. In August,after a heated argument he went back to her. He still says he loves me and wants me to give him time to get out of the relationship with the ex. Even though I loved him, I am beginning to think this is causing more hurt to me than happiness. Should I hold on and wait?

I can see that this has been a turbulent relationship and this man will keep going from one ex to the other and you will end up in an emotional roller coaster. Although he says that he still loves you in his own way he does and although he is saying all the right things as he now wishes to be with you I do not see that he is going to resolve the issues with his ex and I am not being shown that he will leave her in the near future. If you can, it would be wise to try and let this man go as I see history repeating itself and you will re live the moments of when you were living together for 9 months. I do see that you will choose not to wait for him as there appears to be no end in sight with his current relationship sadly. The good news is there is a new love for you during 2015 and this man is by far, more straight forward.

Hi, my daughter is leaving home to move onto a new chosen career. I feel so lonely at the prospect of living on my own. What do you see for me and will I meet a new man? Xx

Firstly, it is understandable and only natural that you are dreading the thought of being alone once your daughter has left home but take comfort in the fact that you have brought her up into the woman that she has become right now and has the confidence to pursue her career choice of which she will excel in. I can see that there will be short periods of loneliness for a while but it does become less and less as you make plans to socialize much more. The socializing will indeed allow you to meet a new man, but please be careful not to rush into things as you are feeling lonely at times as then you can become vulnerable and attract the wrong sort of man. 

There is a new man for you and this is the right one and it is during the summer months of next year as a guideline that you meet him and will treat you well and really adore you he also brings laughter into your life with his great sense of humour!

Hi, I have a deep feeling that my friend has moved on he went on holiday last week and I haven't heard anything since does he still care about me?

I do feel that you will hear from your friend again soon and he has not moved on but he does have other people that he also likes to spend time with, there will be contact from him and he will tell you all about his holiday, he appears to be have been rather busy sorting out a few things since he has returned from his break and he seems to be under some form of pressure. 

This is not someone who would just cease contact, if there were any issues at all then he would explain his reasons as to why he can no longer stay in touch with you, but I am not being shown that this is the case.

My son told me that he does not like my current partner which is upsetting for me. I told my partner and he was very upset as he could not understand way. I don't want this to come between us and now feel trapped in a triangle, what can I do to change the situation?

The dislike your son has for your current partner is almost a way of staying loyal to his father which also means that his father is not displaced. Although this is rather hurtful for your current partner that your son has decided that he does not like him it would be best if he were not to push it right now and knows when to back off.

This situation will resolve itself but it will take time and patience deep down your son does like your partner and they can build up a strong bond I am not being shown that you will be caught up in an emotional triangle for very long. Your son has no real reason to dislike your partner and very slowly the relationship between them will build up and you can start to relax again. The key factor is patience with this matter and it will all turn out alright in the end.

I love the sea and I would love to live near the sea again. I find it therapeutic and calming. Can you see me living by the sea in the future? Is there any chance I could live abroad, even if only part of the year?

Living by the sea is almost like a way of life and this can make your home tranquil and peaceful.  The sea is almost a moving canvas and also the way that nature intends it to be. I do see water around you in the future, but it seems to be a few years yet. This is going to be a really good move for you of which you will never regret. There is a country that you will be very much drawn too and you just ''have to go'' and this is where you decide to take up residence. It looks to be a permanent move, rather than a move for part of a year. In the future, you do get your wish.