Ask A Psychic On Psychic Sofa

Since a very young age I have been overweight, or morbidly obese. Apart from eating can you see if there are any past life issues causing this addiction or childhood issues? I’ve been on diets but it returns, had lap band but that wore a hole in my stomach and I needed to have it taken out.

I can see that there are some underlying issues from your past life that seems to affect your weight, this looks to be connected to a dark haired male and he was not a nice man at all. I do sense that you were often hungry and had to scavenge around for food, this man seemed to prefer boys to girls and you had one sister and three brothers in a past life the boys were treated very well indeed and the girls either had no food or just the leftovers sadly. This is what I sense is a root cause of your weight problems of which is rather challenging for you. In order to really sort this out as it is all in your sub conscious mind have you thought of any alternative therapy such as regression that will bring all these issues out?

I do see that in the future with a lot of help and determination you will lose weight, and go into a department store and buy some really nice outfits, you will not be tiny however but I can see you being well proportioned so much so you do feel good about the way you look and others will offer you compliments.

We have had a relationship of 14 years but he does not want to commit to me in living together or getting married. For the last 6 years it has been very painful at times as he can be very cold and aggressive. We have grown up as a family and a couple of grandchildren between us. We can be very good together or it can be very bad which hurts an awful lot. Why does he not want to commit?

Firstly I do believe that this man does love you, however it does not matter how much he is in love with you this is not a man that wants to commit as he does not see the importance of this although it means a lot to you. In this man’s mind he feels that he has no need to commit to keep you, he knows that you are in love with him and he can do anything he wants within reason and you will not leave him. He does not appear to think that you will end the relationship. This man likes the situation as it is as it suits him. If you wish to be with this man for the rest of your life then sadly it will be as it is now and I do not for see commitment in the future sadly as he will not change his mind. The main thing is that you do actually get along very well for most of the time and the good times do outweigh the bad, try to think of what you do have in this relationship and not what is missing as this man will not change regarding his opinion of commitment as he truly feels there simply is no need.

I have split up with my boyfriend of over 7 years due to us fighting all the time, I feel like I will never be able to get over him. Can you help me?

It does not matter who dumped who it does still hurt and it can be tough to move on.
It may not happen right away but you can take steps to get over him. One thing is to try not to bump into him avoid this at all costs if you can.

It doesn't matter how successful you are at avoiding your ex, if you keep mentally reliving every fight and every good time it is no help to you at all. Busy your brain with new activities to keep from obsessing about what was.

Throw away any souvenirs from your relationship discard letters photos and any gifts that he has given you. If you're not sure that you're ready to let it go, stash it all in a box and out of sight. If you have emails from your ex delete them. If you think that there is some correspondence that you wish to save put them in a folder and plan to look at them later. The end of a relationship is always a loss.

Lastly keeping your emotions bottled up only prolongs the pain, you do need to reach out to good listeners or write it all down, the whole idea is to anger, sadness, resentment and whatever other emotions out of your system.

You will not be ready to date yet as feeling the way you do is currently blocking someone new coming into your life. It will get much better though and you will start to feel lighter and start to live again.

Hi, I’ve recently moved to New Zealand to be near family and start a new life after divorce. Will I soon be settled with a job and somewhere to live, so I can start afresh?

I am being shown that the move to New Zealand was the right thing to do for you and this is going to give you the fresh start that you are yearning for. There is much more settlement on the way for you and your job situation seems to arrive first there is a job offer for you in the near future and the month of October seems to be a lucky month for you, I do see a new home for you that you will be happy and settled in after you start your new job. You are going to meet some new people along the way and this in turn will enable you have a busy social life. There is a new relationship for you and next year looks to be favourable for this and he is very different from you ex and this time it will last.

Hi, something has happened in my relationship with M I accused him of betraying me, and I deleted him from my Whatsapp, he since replied to my accusation, and I begged for us to remain friends, I haven't spoken to him yet! But M keeps checking his whatsapp. Do you see reconciliation between us? Can we forgive and move on?

I can see that you acted impulsively and you did not really check out the true facts before you accused him of betraying you, this is the issue that he is most upset about as M I would end a relationship before contemplating getting involved with anyone else.
This is going to take a while longer yet for him to calm down so that you can have a talk in a reasonable matter. Let him make the contact to you as I feel that begging him to remain friends or otherwise he simply does not seem to want to listen to you right now as he is still rather angry and can be stubborn. I do see that this man does want to be in your life but please be mindful that this will take a few months in order to get your relationship back on track. Take all the time it needs and all will be well for the future and most of all try to trust him as he is not a man that would betray you.

Hi There, I have always suspected that my mother was psychic, but as she died when I was 21 I can't ask her any more questions. Since reciting a pagan mothers’ prayer that hangs on my kitchen wall with a lovely picture of her above it, magical things have been happening. I asked for her guidance and asked if she could lead me down the right road. I believe in symbolism and OMG there has been signs of a tenfold nature. I think she is making sure that my partner and I are going to be happy for the rest of our lives. I suffer with Bi-Polar Disorder and my boyfriend has Complex Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome. She has led me to our dream home even though the rent is too high, I have managed to negotiate a deal that suits both us and my landlord. She has guided me to my dream car. We already have our dream cat Dusty who came to my partner at the rescue centre. I have been unemployed for four years now due to my illness and have to sell my lovely health shop business, but in the last week or so she has assured me that I WILL work again and it will be something I enjoy with good revenue. Old friends of mine and hers have been popping up out of the blue and we have picked up from where we left off over 30 years ago and she has just made me feel so happy and content. After a roller coaster of a life since she passed on it seems she's giving me a hug and saying 'everything is going to be ok', now only your mother can do that and you feel better. It's absolutely fantastic and I feel my spiritual development has jumped up a peg or two. I want to make the most of this ability so I can help others. I'm a natural public speaker who puts people at ease so I feel I would be suited to such a role. I should have been killed on several occasions due to car accidents, many, many bumps on the head due to too much to drink, and near misses with the car. I believe I've been spared in order to 'spread the word'. What do you think? Kind Regards Bernice x x

Thank you for you interesting question and I agree that it is your mother who is around you and guiding you on the right pathway and it is wise to listen to her and to take on board the signs that she shows you. There is a job that will suit you in the near future and it will enable you to progress and use all your skills. Your mum will also lead you to this new and exciting job. You will be able to use your psychic skills to help others in the future and you will feel really complete, there is an interesting journey ahead of you and you will be rich in friendship and love. There is a lot of work for you to do in the near future and you will spread the word.