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I lost my farther this year and we were never really that close, after he died I was helping clear out his things and found a book of all his favourite moments with me. It broke my heart and it made me wish I had got to know him more while he was alive. Can I contact him in the afterlife? I want him to know that I love him.

I can see that the finding of the book has had a big impact on you and it really did make you realise how precious you were to your father even though he may not have always expressed this as much as he should have done, your father really did love you, he already knows deep in his heart that you loved him too.

When we are dreaming we are open to communication from deceased loved ones.

It is easier for our loved ones to ''meet us halfway'' when we are asleep, your father may well come to you in your dreams. If you wish to contact him you can always ask a medium to try to do this for you and you can do this by visiting a spiritualist church, there are also mediums on our Psychic Sofa website. Please bear in mind that your father will only come through to you when he is ready. Communicating with your father is like building a bridge of energy. In order for you to make contact, someone, or both parties has to build a bridge. In some cases recently deceased spirits want to build the bridge but they’re not yet fully comfortable in their new energetic state and cannot, so please bear this in mind.

It is likely that your father will show you that he is around you as items in your home get moved or misplaced, this will be of great comfort to you.

Your father will come through to you when he is ready too and I do see that you will get the opportunity to tell him that you love him, but remember he does already know.

I recently had a group of gypsies come to my house wanted to re-pave my drive. When I turned down their offer a lady from the group said she would put a curse on me if I didn't agree. I quickly closed the door on them and thought no-more of it till the next day when I started experiencing bad pain in my back. Is it because the gypsy lady cursed me and if so how do I do I remove the curse?

Many people are wary of Gypsies believing that they practice hypnotism or magic and they are correct to some extent. Although gypsy curses are sudden and powerful, they are rare. The gypsy that came to your house was quite clearly trying to get you to have your drive done and she was using fear. I am not being shown that the back pain was due to any curse that she put on you, it was just coincidence that this in fact happened to you.

To conclude, if a gypsy bothers you in the future, try not to get into any conversation with them, this also includes avoiding eye contact. In other words don't talk to her don't pay attention to her at all. This is how you can protect yourself from gypsy magic. If a gypsy insists on telling your fortune, you can say this, “I can tell fortunes myself.” this will make them back off. You can also put a mirror in a breast pocket and this will reflect what could come your way if you are at all worried. 

I really do not see that you have anything to fear from your recent experience.

Hello, A few months ago I moved house, the rest of the family felt right at home straight away but I don't feel like this house is my home. I also feel like there is some sort of presence in the house that is making me feel uneasy. Is my home haunted? If so, how can I get rid of it? Will I ever feel at home here? My family is happy so I don't want to uproot them again. Please help. Thank you

Hi

I can see that there is a spirit in your home but it is not of anyone that would bring harm to you, this is of an elderly lady and she wanders around your home due to the fact that as far as she is concerned it is her home and not yours, she looks on you as being the intruder and this is why you are the one picking up on her and feeling uneasy and unsettled, this elderly lady does not really realise how bad this makes you feel.

The best way to deal with your spirit is to be confident, if you talk to her talk to her in a no nonsense ''tone'', but not in a mean way, let her know that it is your home now and it is time for her to leave. This spirit is a left over spirit that has decided she likes to be in your house, and it if this does not work (but I feel sure that it will do) you can always go to the next level and contact your local church.

Once your spirit has vanished then it would be wise to cleanse your house, so she does not return it would be an idea to burn sage, this is said to clear any negative energy burning incense is considered a purifying force in many cultures. 

Ring a bell in each corner of your home. This is said to break up the negative energy and encourage positive energy. It is important to do this more than once as negative energy can come from many different sources. Physically clean your home. This will help to create an atmosphere of cleanliness and to discourage this energy from coming back.

Do you believe in love at first sight? I recently meet someone on the tube in London and although we only shared a moment I feel like I may have met “The One” I think he felt the same way, we shared a kiss but I had to get off at the next stop. I’ve been getting the same tube for over 2 weeks now in the hope that I’ll see him again but with no success. I have been regretting getting off that tube ever since. Do you think I’ll see him again or have I missed my chance at love?

Hi, I recently lost a loved one but they are deep in my heart so I feel like they will always be with me. I believe in reincarnation to an extent and want to know if you see our energies meeting again in another life? Thank you,

Loosing someone who is a great love in your life is always very hard to deal with. It is best to take a day at a time in order to try to heal from this, as there is no easy solution. Every day that goes by does not make you erase them from your memory, but it will make it slightly easier to cope with your loss.
Your energies will meet again, but it will take some time. It will be when you least expect it.
The soul will be reborn into a new life and the soul can appear incarnate in humans, animals or plants as it works its way toward an eventual escape from the cycle of birth, death and rebirth.
I am sensing that your loved one is always with you and when your energies do meet it will be simply amazing!

Hi, I believe in fate and am worried that I am fated to repeat my mother and/or fathers mistakes. My mother is an alcoholic and has been to rehab several times and my father cheated on her with multiple women resulting in a divorce. I like a drink and have been unfaithful in past relationships, I am doomed to repeat my parents mistakes or can I break the chain and have a happy life? Thank you

Firstly life is always what you make it and you very conscious that you do not wish to repeat the mistakes of your parents. As far as drinking is concerned everything in moderation but if you are worried about the amount that you are drinking, then please seek help from your GP. Scientists have come to the conclusion it can be hereditary but it is not always the case, bearing this in mind you may need to monitor it more closely than most people. Just because you mum is one who does drink to excess does not mean that it is unavoidable for you. There are many other contributory factors that can compound the issue, so just because you have an alcoholic parent, or parents, does not automatically mean you will develop the disease yourself.

As for the relationship area of your life you are very aware of the issues around your fathers behavior and the upset that it caused to the family. I do not feel that you will adopt the same behaviour it may be a concern now as you have already made mistakes which worry you and does not make you feel great about yourself. There is something inside you where you will realise this which will bring back the painful memories and this will stop you behaving this way.

If you dwell on the fact that the reason you could become an alcoholic is due to your mum or you cannot be faithful in a relationship as it is due to your dad, your are in fact correct as this is the way you mind has set itself. The best and easiest way to stop this is to train your way of thinking into knowing there really is no reason and no way that you are going to be like them, the power of the mind and thought is a wonderful thing. You have no real reason to be the same as you do have free will to say no and you will have a happy and contented life.