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I met a guy from the past his name is Nicholas. I am really drawn to him and we have spent a few nights together. I am now wondering what the future holds. Had so many disappoints in the past and I really like this to be transpire into a positive loving committed relationship.

Nicholas has come back into your life for a reason he has not indicated how he feels about you yet as it too soon. The fact that Nicholas is going to want to see you more and more frequently will give you a sign that he is wishing to return to your life for a good reason. When it comes to love there really is no hard and fast rules, and even though you dated a long time ago it is important that to truthfully remember your past love relationship exactly as it was not how you fondly think back on it now and don’t just rely on your memory. If you have them, look at old pictures read old notes or whatever you may have. Do not work on the assumptions that they are the person that you once loved. Nicholas may have changed in unexpected ways. I can see that you are wanting more or less the same sort of things, and that you are going to take time to get to know each other again and it would be best that if there are any concerns to flag them up straight away, just keep in mind that every relationship new or rekindled has its challenges and is very real. He also appears to be more mature now and able to handle things differently. Nicholas wants a stable long term relationship with you but it is too early for him to express this at the moment. I do not foresee him breaking your heart, you are bound to be rather anxious as to how this will all turn out and he does feel the same way too this is all down to both your past issues. He is not frightened of commitment and he does appear to want to settle down. Take your time and this really can work out well for both of you. You will get what you are wanting from this relationship.

Hi, I caught a friend out lying to me about something important. Now I feel like I can never trust her again, I want to be friends but I can't let go of the deceit. I've had trust issues in the past and don't know if I'll be able to move on and be friends with her again. What should I do?

Hi Angie, I was involved in a long distance relationship of sorts across the Atlantic for about a year (someone I met on holiday). For the first time in years I felt as though I had a good connection with someone, and when he visited for a couple of weeks we got on so well. The relationship came to an abrupt end when he declared that he didn't want either of us to have expectations that one would eventually move for the other. I ended it there and the whole experience gave me such a big knock in confidence when I had been trying to convince myself that I deserved happiness, as previously I usually got involved with guys I wasn't that interested in as I thought I couldn't do any better. I'd really like to know why he let what we had go or was I actually aiming for someone I didn't deserve?

Hi, Often in long distant relationship everything is great when you do get together, the times when you are apart you tend to trudge through, and these times are not always so great. Also the times when you are together is wonderful and in essence you can block out what is dysfunctional in the hope that the glitches that you encounter are only due to the fact that you are not in the same place. This man originally went with the flow and he did have feelings for you and the fact that he ended it was not your fault, he just decided to look at the relationship in a very black and white way and after much thought he decided that there was no way he was going to give up his life as he knows it and move nearer to you and he did not expect you to move nearer to him. This man does appear to have an issue regarding commitment and even if you had given up everything and moved nearer to him he could not have handled the guilt that you had sacrificed so much to be with him only to find it was not working out. I feel in a way that you did know this man but you did not really know him and the part that you were not aware of was his weak side, and it was so much easier for him to quit this relationship rather than carry it on sadly. This man came to the conclusion not put himself through the long periods of time without you. I can see that he has been thinking whether the effort to make this long distant relationship work was worth it. Sadly he decided it was not, he found that the longer it was endured the more taxing the effect on his mind and body would be. You have not been aiming for something that you did not deserve it was just that he could not handle or see a future for you together and he felt it kinder to call it a day, this is all really raw right now but this will subside and you will feel a connection again with a new man that is much closer to home.. Try not to worry your confidence will return again and you will be ready to date again and next time it really does work out for you.

Hi, My husband passed away recently and ever since his passing, things have started moving and falling over in my home. Recently our wedding picture fell over for no reason, is he trying to contact me? Is he in a happy place? I feel lost without him after 50 years of marriage. Have a nice day,

Hi Blanche, I do see that your husband is trying to get your attention, and he did start to try to get your attention subtly, and as you did not notice these signs he has making things fall over and the most prominent sign was when the wedding picture fell over, he did not mean to scare you at all. Your husband wishes you to know that he is well and settled he has seen all the tears and he knows how much you miss him. I can see that you have often thought what are you going to do without your husband? This is why he is trying so hard to let you know that he is around and he does wish you to know that he is in a happy place. Loosing your husband has changed your entire life especially when the loved one was also your best friend and I can see at times you feel uncomfortable about making even minor decisions. It is natural for you to experience this ‘lost’ feeling and it is best to be patient with yourself as you work through the process of grief. Grief is a journey that lasts as long as it take to reconcile all issue appertaining to death, your loved one, yourself to bring peace and understanding. You husband wants you to strive to be happy and fulfilled you are going to meet new people and realise that life can be satisfying and exciting even if you are alone, but change may not come easily or quickly. There are some better times ahead of you.

My dog sits and constantly stares out into my hallway then every so often his eyes seem to follow someone into my sitting room to where I’m seated. I definitely think he is seeing a spirit he also wags his tail sometimes as if someone is there and it's just me and him in the house.

Hi Belle, Dogs are sensitive to the spirit world, dogs are natural ghost hunters with abilities that humans can only approximate with sophisticated electronic equipment, for instant ghost hunters often use amplified microphones to capture every little sound. Dogs do hear sounds at a much higher frequency and this is the case with your dog as he can move his ears independently toward wherever the sound is coming from. Dogs can also see much better in the dark than humans in low light (cats see even better). The person that your dog is seeing is of an elderly man who either spent a lot of time on that plot of land or actually lived in the house many, many years ago. He enjoys being around your home and just likes to wander around his familiar surroundings. This man used to own a dog and he does draw up close to your dog. I feel that he does play with your dog. There is nothing to fear at all as this man is a friendly spirit and just visits from time to time and he will stay with you for as long as you wish him to but he means no harm at all, and your dog really does like this man!

I recently went to a Psychic Fair and had a reading with a Psychic there, she told me that my 6 year child has psychic abilities. Since then I have noticed that my daughter stares blankly at things in the house for long periods and sometimes it appears that she is looking right through me as if she is having a vision when I speak to her. Was the psychic right? If so, how do I deal with a psychic child and should I nurture or discourage her gift? I am concerned it could harm her development into adulthood and make her a social outcast.

I do feel that your child does have psychic tendencies and one of the things that tends to happen is we tell that child not to tell anyone. Understandably so as an adult we know that the world can be unkind to be different from the norm and the worst thing that you can do is looked shocked. The choice is yours if you wish to nurture of discourage her gift but it is a gift given to her that could be used to enhance her life and the life of others. It will also offer her great protection due to the fact if she is in any danger she will sense this and walk away leaving her safe. You should not find that your daughter’s gift will harm her development as this sort of thing is more and more accepted now more than ever and this will continue. She is going to be very sensitive and can be quick to tears, she may well have mood swings from happy to sad in an instant. Your daughter may not always sleep well, and one day you may find her talking to imaginary friends. You will also see in the future she speaks about things that she technically she should not really know about, for example she may recognise places that she has never visited before. This is not something to be scared of but something to be cherished, she will develop in her own time and she will find what is right for her, if your daughter is supposed to work for spirit then you will find that this is the way that she will go. The way that she is will become everyday life it just takes acceptance and time, there is nothing to be fearful of.