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I have three kids with my partner. During this time he has slept with numerous women and is currently living with the mother of his other children. I know he doesn’t really love me but I’m finding nearly impossible to leave him and feel I may miss my chance of finding true love. I feel like no-one else could ever love me and am clinging to this relationship for fear of ending up alone. My mum ending up dying alone of cancer and I terrified the same fate awaits me.

Hi Melissa The real reason that you think that no one else will ever love you is all down to this current partner not treating you in the way he should and making you feel that you are worthy of anything good at all. This man loves one person and sadly is himself, I am not confident that he will change in any way it is all about him he does not know how to be in a ''real'' and loving relationship. The woman that he is currently living with gives him a roof over his head and as soon as he thinks he has found something better or decides simply he wants a change, he will leave her and history will repeat itself. The biggest devastating thing that has happened to you is loosing your mum and loosing him will never be so bad. You do really need to have think about the things that are positive being with this man, you are already really as this man has never been there for 'you' and I do really feel that if you can take the brave step and not allow this man back in your life apart from he has to be a father to your children, then I can see that you will start to realise life is not so bad and your confidence will grow along with your self esteem. There are much better times ahead of you and I feel that letting this man go is going to bring in a new life for you and there will be a new man who is going to treat you very well indeed I do not see you looking back but he will be looking back with regret for what he has lost. Taking the action that you so badly need to do will lead you to the happiness that you crave for.