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Will my girlfriend and I get to work out our issues after she said that she needs time to think about things?

Your girlfriend is needing time space right now and she may not know how long it is going to take her so if you should decide to ask her I do not feel that you will really get a definite answer. In order not to be left in limbo in this situation you need to have a heart to heart talk with her and ask her what she wants in this break. Does she intend to contact you from time to time and if this is the case it would be wise for her to do the communication, if she did not contact you from time to time, it would be a good idea not to give her a hard time over it. Let it be the way that she wants it to be. She needs to miss you in order to see what she has let go of. If you were to make contact with her on a daily basis it does not give her the chance to miss you at all, she will not know what she had with you until it is gone

I can see that this is not going to be easy for you at all but at the end of the day you are being honourable by following her needs and wishes at such a painful time. I also suspect that you need space yourself. This is an important stepping stone to having a great relationship with her and overcoming the problems that you have in order to carry on with this relationship when she decides to come back to you of which I feel that she will at a later date.

Hi, I've been offered the opportunity to work abroad for the summer. It's a great opportunity but it would mean leaving my family behind. Should I go for it?

This really is a big decision, you do need to sit down with your family and decide as a family, be mindful of the fact that your separation from them is only a temporary and you may never get this wonderful opportunity again. Living and working abroad you will find the separation from your family difficult but it will be well worth it in the long term as it broadens your horizons. Your family will be there when you return and with modern technology of the day it will be easy to keep in touch with them. I can see that you will accept this opportunity and will not regret it. 

I can see that you are an intelligent woman and you know that ultimately this is your decision and this is something for you and your family will not stand in your way when you decide to say yes.

Hi, my girlfriend never wants s to go out any more and it's putting a strain on my relationship with her. We've been together for 2 year and for the first 6 months we went out all the time. I really want to go out and have some fun but she never wants to any more. We probably only go out once every 6 months. Can you help?

I am sorry you and your girlfriend have been having difficulties in encouraging her to go out to mutual social outings. Solving this will depend on different factors. If she goes out to work then she is confident in doing this and it may be wise to ask her directly why she should choose to stay at home than go out with you. Your girlfriend may well prefer going to a different kind of place or an event such as the theatre, cinema or for a meal. If she is reluctant to do any of these things then it will be back to basics and encourage her to go out with you shopping or even a walk as you need to establish if his is an anxiety problem, or simply she now has you in her life in a stable way and she is rather complacent and she is now under the impression that she does not need to work at this relationship

I do see that this situation be resolved and in the near future, as it would be wise to encourage her to go on very short trips out with you, try to set something up with her a week or so in advance, that way she can plan in her head about going out. I can see that she seems to have lost confidence and she is stuck in a rut this is going to pass for you and she will start to go out with your more, this will turn around in your favour and I do see a better social life ahead together.

Hello, I feel like I'm at a bit of a crossroads in life and don't know which way to turn. I could choose the path I currently walk of security but boredom or I could take a gamble and start a new path of uncertainties but excitement. I need guidance. Love and Light

Hello

I am being shown that you feel that life is changing and you are also ready for a change you are ready to venture into a new chapter. There appears to be some fear over changing but if you do not make these changes then the boredom will just continue for you and this not something that you wish for. Life's crossroads will provide you with a new opportunity.

I am being shown that you do need to move with the changes instead of going against them and you will be successful in finding the stability and the happiness that you so dearly want and need. It is wise to trust your deepest feelings.

We all know, deep within ourselves, what we need to do - what we know, how to think, when to trust. I can see that by taking on a new challenge you will become stronger for having taken the risqué. All you need to do is believe in yourself and I can see that you have an interesting and successful journey ahead of you. Be brave and take the gamble of moving forward.

My husband is getting a lot of readings recently and I overheard one the other day and it sounded like he was flirting quite a lot with the reader. Is he having an emotional relationship with this reader and will it develop into something more? Should I confront him?

Hello,

I can see that the conversation that you over heard has concerned you, the person on the other end of the phone did have a strong psychic connection with your husband and this is why they seemed to get along well. Your husband found his chosen psychic easy to talk too and she was trying to let enable him to see a pathway forward as there were a few questions that he wanted answers too.

I am being shown that if you were to confront him regarding what you heard he would really go on the defence as he is not going to see your point of view as to why you are upset about his conversation and he will say that it was harmless fun and he does not even know her which is true, as he has never met her. I am sensing that the reader that he spoke to already has a male around her. I am not being shown that this is going to develop into anything more and it would not be wise to mention this incident. The reading that your husband had did leave him empowered, clear and felt that he was able to make informed choices. The reader managed to help him navigate his way through life.

I have recently moved and I'm finding it hard to make new friends in my area. I am very spiritual and find it hard to connect with people from my area as no-one seems to have a spiritual nature in this town. Can you offer any advice?

Online forums and local communities are great way to start off making new friendships, have a look into courses that are on offer at your local college and if you are able to enrol, there will be people there with the same interests as you.
There may also be workshops or seminars, that you could look in to and I can see that this will allow you to meet other people who are also interested in personal development.
Existing clubs and communities are a great way to quickly meet like-minded individuals. See each community as a central hub that attracts people with the same interests. A spiritualist church would also be a good place to start. The summer months do look as though you have made a few friends that you can relate too and this is just the start, you do start to meet trustworthy friends.

The key to meeting new people is to be pro active and join something that is of interest to you, you will be meeting these people soon now and then you will find that you are far more settled that you currently are.

Try not to worry about meeting new people as this is going to happen for you and you will feel as though you "belong" in the near future.