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Hi, I've recently started a new job and some of the female workers there don't seem to like me. After my first week I start getting anonymous threats and insults on facebook. Is it these hateful girls in my new office and what should I do?

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Hi Amanda I am sorry to hear that you are having such a difficult time right now, have a think to see what could have happened to bring this on, although in all sincerity I am not picking up that you have done anything untoward, you are just dealing with people that are ''clicky'' and they do not allow you to fit in. If you approach these people yourself to try to establish the problem even a timid approach can bring on nastiness so please bear this in mind. what you see as being polite and thoughtful can sometimes be seen by someone else as dithering and lacking in decisiveness and this can send less patient people into paroxysms of irritation! The fact that you are getting threats, these are psychologically and ethically difficult to deal with and it would be wise to take action, you could either report to Facebook, or inform the police , they will no doubt ask you who you think it could be, so it would be best to mention your new job and animosity that you are experiencing. At this stage you do not know if the two are connected, therefore, it may be wise to ask one of your managers or Human Resources if you can speak to them and try to note down any events that you can recall. If you are a member of a Trade Union you could get in touch with them and ask them for advice and representation. It really would be wise to nip this in the bud as this will not improve on it's own, so to take action is the only answer. Remember thankfully it is only some of the female workers and not others, I can see that this a really distressing issue for you right now and it no doubt makes you feel anxious and low, but this will come to an end and your work place will be a much better place for you, as this behavior stops as the people concerned are dealt with, but you do need to take some form of action, do not ignore this situation in the hope that it will go away.

Angie
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Hi Amanda I am sorry to hear that you are having such a difficult time right now, have a think to see what could have happened to bring this on, although in all sincerity I am not picking up that you have done anything untoward, you are just dealing with people that are ''clicky'' and they do not allow you to fit in. If you approach these people yourself to try to establish the problem even a timid approach can bring on nastiness so please bear this in mind. what you see as being polite and thoughtful can sometimes be seen by someone else as dithering and lacking in decisiveness and this can send less patient people into paroxysms of irritation! The fact that you are getting threats, these are psychologically and ethically difficult to deal with and it would be wise to take action, you could either report to Facebook, or inform the police , they will no doubt ask you who you think it could be, so it would be best to mention your new job and animosity that you are experiencing. At this stage you do not know if the two are connected, therefore, it may be wise to ask one of your managers or Human Resources if you can speak to them and try to note down any events that you can recall. If you are a member of a Trade Union you could get in touch with them and ask them for advice and representation. It really would be wise to nip this in the bud as this will not improve on it's own, so to take action is the only answer. Remember thankfully it is only some of the female workers and not others, I can see that this a really distressing issue for you right now and it no doubt makes you feel anxious and low, but this will come to an end and your work place will be a much better place for you, as this behavior stops as the people concerned are dealt with, but you do need to take some form of action, do not ignore this situation in the hope that it will go away.

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