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Hi, I believe in fate and am worried that I am fated to repeat my mother and/or fathers mistakes. My mother is an alcoholic and has been to rehab several times and my father cheated on her with multiple women resulting in a divorce. I like a drink and have been unfaithful in past relationships, I am doomed to repeat my parents mistakes or can I break the chain and have a happy life? Thank you

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Firstly life is always what you make it and you very conscious that you do not wish to repeat the mistakes of your parents. As far as drinking is concerned everything in moderation but if you are worried about the amount that you are drinking, then please seek help from your GP. Scientists have come to the conclusion it can be hereditary but it is not always the case, bearing this in mind you may need to monitor it more closely than most people. Just because you mum is one who does drink to excess does not mean that it is unavoidable for you. There are many other contributory factors that can compound the issue, so just because you have an alcoholic parent, or parents, does not automatically mean you will develop the disease yourself. As for the relationship area of your life you are very aware of the issues around your fathers behavior and the upset that it caused to the family. I do not feel that you will adopt the same behaviour it may be a concern now as you have already made mistakes which worry you and does not make you feel great about yourself. There is something inside you where you will realise this which will bring back the painful memories and this will stop you behaving this way. If you dwell on the fact that the reason you could become an alcoholic is due to your mum or you cannot be faithful in a relationship as it is due to your dad, your are in fact correct as this is the way you mind has set itself. The best and easiest way to stop this is to train your way of thinking into knowing there really is no reason and no way that you are going to be like them, the power of the mind and thought is a wonderful thing. You have no real reason to be the same as you do have free will to say no and you will have a happy and contented life.

Angie
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Firstly life is always what you make it and you very conscious that you do not wish to repeat the mistakes of your parents. As far as drinking is concerned everything in moderation but if you are worried about the amount that you are drinking, then please seek help from your GP. Scientists have come to the conclusion it can be hereditary but it is not always the case, bearing this in mind you may need to monitor it more closely than most people. Just because you mum is one who does drink to excess does not mean that it is unavoidable for you. There are many other contributory factors that can compound the issue, so just because you have an alcoholic parent, or parents, does not automatically mean you will develop the disease yourself. As for the relationship area of your life you are very aware of the issues around your fathers behavior and the upset that it caused to the family. I do not feel that you will adopt the same behaviour it may be a concern now as you have already made mistakes which worry you and does not make you feel great about yourself. There is something inside you where you will realise this which will bring back the painful memories and this will stop you behaving this way. If you dwell on the fact that the reason you could become an alcoholic is due to your mum or you cannot be faithful in a relationship as it is due to your dad, your are in fact correct as this is the way you mind has set itself. The best and easiest way to stop this is to train your way of thinking into knowing there really is no reason and no way that you are going to be like them, the power of the mind and thought is a wonderful thing. You have no real reason to be the same as you do have free will to say no and you will have a happy and contented life.

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