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I sometimes think about getting back with my ex but when we were together I was unhappy. I find it hard to let go because we still speak occasionally. Should I cut him out of my life so I can get over him or should I try and rekindle the flame?

Angie
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Hello Melissa Single life can make an ex seem pretty good but getting back together is not often the best choice of action. In a way this relationship has run its course and it is over. Everything that did not work in your relationship before, be it cheating, dishonesty, lack of trust, and even respect has not changed. If you find yourself saying maybe just maybe things will be different this time, you are not alone, this is very common but you also need to ask is your ex also thinking the very same thing? Would you be in agreement on how things would need to change in the relationship before you give it another go? All these things do need to be considered before you enter into another relationship with this man, and if any of the answers come up as a no, then this is not worth going back to. You have survived the split and you have also worked through the pain you could be stronger now than you ever have before despite all this your ex is still trying to re connect with you. Regardless of the reasons why you broke up going back into a relationship without examining it ,will become just an opportunity to replay the exact same failure second time round. I feel that it would be much better for you to cut this man out of your life, and this will help you to move on and there will be someone new sooner than you think. I just feel that going back you will just re live the unhappiness that you experienced before.

Angie
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Hello Melissa Single life can make an ex seem pretty good but getting back together is not often the best choice of action. In a way this relationship has run its course and it is over. Everything that did not work in your relationship before, be it cheating, dishonesty, lack of trust, and even respect has not changed. If you find yourself saying maybe just maybe things will be different this time, you are not alone, this is very common but you also need to ask is your ex also thinking the very same thing? Would you be in agreement on how things would need to change in the relationship before you give it another go? All these things do need to be considered before you enter into another relationship with this man, and if any of the answers come up as a no, then this is not worth going back to. You have survived the split and you have also worked through the pain you could be stronger now than you ever have before despite all this your ex is still trying to re connect with you. Regardless of the reasons why you broke up going back into a relationship without examining it ,will become just an opportunity to replay the exact same failure second time round. I feel that it would be much better for you to cut this man out of your life, and this will help you to move on and there will be someone new sooner than you think. I just feel that going back you will just re live the unhappiness that you experienced before.

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