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Ex wants to come back, says he is willing to stop running and make it work this time. It’s a case of head and heart. Either way I feel I will get hurt. If I trust I may have that glimmer of hope we can make it work, but what if it goes wrong? Or I walk away and never know what could have been. He 19.07.70 I’m 09.08.78

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Hi Jenny, Having this man back can all depend on various things, the main reasons, why did you break up in the first place. Exes are always exes for a reason, this man may be lonely and has now come to realise and he has made a mistake in you parting company. This man will say all that he wants you to hear but does he really mean it? With this man if what happened in the first place that caused this split is something that you really cannot find in your heart to forgive him then there really is no point in reconciliation as it simply will not work. This man I feel has slowly destroyed your trust, and this is not going to be easy to get this back on track. I can see that there are a lot issues around this relationship and to date, this man has not changed and even you have heard the words before that he is willing to stop running. This seems to be a pattern with him and I am sorry to tell you he does wish to be with you but his behaviour of ‘’running’’ you will experience time and time again. Sometimes it helps to get a blank sheet of paper and write down all the good reasons for letting this man back in your life and all the negative reasons for doing so, this may well help you come to a conclusion. To have him back from what I can see is a major big gamble and due to how he has been this has knocked your confidence you seem to build it up again only to get knocked back again by him. If you look back at the relationship, think of the enjoyable things and how good it was, then think of the not so great things the things that made you cry and the horrible things is brought into your life which one outweighs the other? If the bad takes over, then would it be wise to have this man back in your life only to make you miserable for more of your life? I feel that deep down you already know what the outcome will be to having this man back in your life, he will be a great challenge to you as I feel that you will have quite an issue with trusting him again, which will lead to more heartache. Your biggest fear could be that you will be left alone, I do not feel at all that this will be the case there is going to be someone very different for you in your future. I realise that letting this ex go permanently is going to be soul searching and hard, but I feel that you will make the right decision for you.

Angie
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Hi Jenny, Having this man back can all depend on various things, the main reasons, why did you break up in the first place. Exes are always exes for a reason, this man may be lonely and has now come to realise and he has made a mistake in you parting company. This man will say all that he wants you to hear but does he really mean it? With this man if what happened in the first place that caused this split is something that you really cannot find in your heart to forgive him then there really is no point in reconciliation as it simply will not work. This man I feel has slowly destroyed your trust, and this is not going to be easy to get this back on track. I can see that there are a lot issues around this relationship and to date, this man has not changed and even you have heard the words before that he is willing to stop running. This seems to be a pattern with him and I am sorry to tell you he does wish to be with you but his behaviour of ‘’running’’ you will experience time and time again. Sometimes it helps to get a blank sheet of paper and write down all the good reasons for letting this man back in your life and all the negative reasons for doing so, this may well help you come to a conclusion. To have him back from what I can see is a major big gamble and due to how he has been this has knocked your confidence you seem to build it up again only to get knocked back again by him. If you look back at the relationship, think of the enjoyable things and how good it was, then think of the not so great things the things that made you cry and the horrible things is brought into your life which one outweighs the other? If the bad takes over, then would it be wise to have this man back in your life only to make you miserable for more of your life? I feel that deep down you already know what the outcome will be to having this man back in your life, he will be a great challenge to you as I feel that you will have quite an issue with trusting him again, which will lead to more heartache. Your biggest fear could be that you will be left alone, I do not feel at all that this will be the case there is going to be someone very different for you in your future. I realise that letting this ex go permanently is going to be soul searching and hard, but I feel that you will make the right decision for you.

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