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My ex-husband has split from his current girlfriend, I still have feelings for him, shall I get back in contact with him?

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I feel that it is going to be best for you to allow your ex husband space right now as with the split from his current girlfriend he has now suffered another failure in his life, and this will take him time to ''get his head around it'' he is licking his wounds as it were right now and will not really be in the right frame of mind to talk or hear from an ex of his. Remembering that you are sadly an ex for a reason then in order for you to get some form of ''balance'' again there would be a lot of talking to do and to jump straight back into a relationship with him could lead to disaster. I am not saying categorically not to get contact him but if you were to do it too soon, then he will feel that you are gloating about this most recent split, and this will then create totally the wrong impression and you would never get him back, and, he is not after any kind of sympathy right now especially from a past love. I feel that you need to leave it at least a couple of months until you contact him unless you should bump in to him sooner and then it would not be a bad or negative idea to pick up the phone and just say that you were thinking of him and wondered how he was , it is not a wise idea to say to him'' I have heard that you have split up with your girlfriend how are you'' as the chances are he will bite your head off, as do not forget he does not want to be reminded of the split! It will be a very sore subject, A few points you may wish to consider before you make the contact:- What would you do differently should you decide to get back together? What about him did you love the most? What is it that went wrong in your relationship? Once all these points have been considered then is the time to pick up the phone start just a normal every day conversation with him, and try hard not to talk too much about your feelings that you still have for him otherwise if you profess undying love in the first sentence he will simply run!, He will see this as you offering a hand of friendship to start with and in time will come to realise that your relationship was not that bad after all…and then you can start to re build what you have both lost and if destiny decides you are meant to be together then so be it.

Angie
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I feel that it is going to be best for you to allow your ex husband space right now as with the split from his current girlfriend he has now suffered another failure in his life, and this will take him time to ''get his head around it'' he is licking his wounds as it were right now and will not really be in the right frame of mind to talk or hear from an ex of his. Remembering that you are sadly an ex for a reason then in order for you to get some form of ''balance'' again there would be a lot of talking to do and to jump straight back into a relationship with him could lead to disaster. I am not saying categorically not to get contact him but if you were to do it too soon, then he will feel that you are gloating about this most recent split, and this will then create totally the wrong impression and you would never get him back, and, he is not after any kind of sympathy right now especially from a past love. I feel that you need to leave it at least a couple of months until you contact him unless you should bump in to him sooner and then it would not be a bad or negative idea to pick up the phone and just say that you were thinking of him and wondered how he was , it is not a wise idea to say to him'' I have heard that you have split up with your girlfriend how are you'' as the chances are he will bite your head off, as do not forget he does not want to be reminded of the split! It will be a very sore subject, A few points you may wish to consider before you make the contact:- What would you do differently should you decide to get back together? What about him did you love the most? What is it that went wrong in your relationship? Once all these points have been considered then is the time to pick up the phone start just a normal every day conversation with him, and try hard not to talk too much about your feelings that you still have for him otherwise if you profess undying love in the first sentence he will simply run!, He will see this as you offering a hand of friendship to start with and in time will come to realise that your relationship was not that bad after all…and then you can start to re build what you have both lost and if destiny decides you are meant to be together then so be it.

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