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My ex finally managed to speak to me via my home phone when I refused to return his texts or calls as I had enough of being second best. This took almost 18 months and in that time I gradually healed myself, he asked to come over to see me and we spent a lovely day together and I only mentioned that he did not treat me right and I could see from his face that I had hit home. Neither of us said anything about seeing each other again but he came to see me 3 weeks later and kept in touch via texting within that time. I’m in a real dilemma he won’t open up and commit to seeing me again and I want to say that it can’t be like it was before. I would love to have an insight into this and find out just what is going on in his head and if there is any future for us to be a proper couple.

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Hi Marie, I can see that it has taken you a lot of courage to become strong again, This man is showing signs of regret around him and I sense that he wishes to come back into your life on a permanent basis, I feel that one of his fears is that if he leaves it too late you could meet someone else. There is absolutely no ambiguity about the fact that he contacted you for the sole reason that he was thinking about you, wondering how you were, and maybe even questioning whether or not you had made the right decision in ending the relationship. When you mentioned about the bad way that he treated you it did hit on a raw nerve as the guilt of how he treated you all came to the front of his mind, this is something he feels embarrassed to be reminded of. I do see that there can be a future for you with this man and the way forward is to stay strong and not back down on what you want from him. The best way to handle this is to gradually take him back as he slowly proves his commitment to you. I do see that you will be given the opportunity to say to him what you have always wanted too and it would be good to let him to him that you feel so disrespected by the way he has treated you. This man will open up to you as deep down he knows he will have to in order for this relationship to truly work. People do make mistakes and it is up to you to make him realize that you can live without him and you have already achieved this by being silent on him when he first left you. I feel that the main thing is be strong always maintain your dignity and integrity and remain hopeful that all will be okay as I do see that it will be, this man has learned a tough lesson and I feel that you will be a proper couple as you will not settle for anything less and he knows this.

Angie
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Hi Marie, I can see that it has taken you a lot of courage to become strong again, This man is showing signs of regret around him and I sense that he wishes to come back into your life on a permanent basis, I feel that one of his fears is that if he leaves it too late you could meet someone else. There is absolutely no ambiguity about the fact that he contacted you for the sole reason that he was thinking about you, wondering how you were, and maybe even questioning whether or not you had made the right decision in ending the relationship. When you mentioned about the bad way that he treated you it did hit on a raw nerve as the guilt of how he treated you all came to the front of his mind, this is something he feels embarrassed to be reminded of. I do see that there can be a future for you with this man and the way forward is to stay strong and not back down on what you want from him. The best way to handle this is to gradually take him back as he slowly proves his commitment to you. I do see that you will be given the opportunity to say to him what you have always wanted too and it would be good to let him to him that you feel so disrespected by the way he has treated you. This man will open up to you as deep down he knows he will have to in order for this relationship to truly work. People do make mistakes and it is up to you to make him realize that you can live without him and you have already achieved this by being silent on him when he first left you. I feel that the main thing is be strong always maintain your dignity and integrity and remain hopeful that all will be okay as I do see that it will be, this man has learned a tough lesson and I feel that you will be a proper couple as you will not settle for anything less and he knows this.

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