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This year has been crazy regarding work, I feel like it has been like a roller coast at times. I have been offered a opportunity which could be very rewarding. Should I take it and will it work...

The new job opportunity is a good one and it is well worth considering for various reasons, there is still a lot of hard work involved however, the rewards will be very rewarding and beneficial to you. It seems that this opportunity will either not present itself again or it would be a long time before it would do so. This new adventure will work and I can see you doing well. Great things are in front of you and you will be happy with the decision that you make and will not look back.

After a happy 9 month relationship he had a bit of a wobble and took a step back asking to stay friends? How long will he need before he comes back forward into dating again?

I can see that this man got really scared by the feelings that were growing for you and this was not something that he has ever felt so strongly before, at the moment he chooses not to want to be in a relationship therefore, it may be an idea to see what happens being friends. I do sense that this man will become more settled over the next few months and will decide that he wants a relationship rather than a friendship. He wants to stay 'friends' at this moment in time due to the fact he does not really wish to let you go. Let this man take his time and I sense that there will be a good outcome for you in the future.

I have been talking to this guy and we have had a good friendship he told me he can’t be with me due to the fact his mum may not accept me. He is going abroad soon and he had not been in touch I just would like to know whether he will be getting engaged or married whist his out there and if he will ever get back in touch with me yes then when?

This man sadly cannot find a way forwards with you due to the way how his mother is and he seems to be under a lot of pressure at the moment I am not being shown that there is another woman around him, his family are encouraging him to get married to someone of their choosing. I am being shown that he will be in contact with you again and at the time he will be feeling rather frustrated and low and it will be during the first half of 2016 as a guideline, however, it does appear around this time that you will be feeling rather different regarding this man as you have started to move on with your life.

Will I ever get out of the rut I'm stuck in and move on to better things?

Firstly never assume that you're stuck with the way things are. Typically, we all seem to go through this stage at some point in our lives. You do have the power to move forward no matter what obstacles block your path. In fact, you do have the power to follow through and make significant progress with your goals. You do have power as you do have choice. You seem to have been held a prisoner with old habits. Try to create a list of actions, and focus on what you need to do as I sense 2016 for you can be a very productive and progressive year for you.

There is good hope for you no matter how long you have been stuck in this rut and whilst change can be scary they key is to work through the fear that is the only way that you are going to increase your self-confidence and make progress. There are much better times ahead of you.

Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years and want to take things to the next level and get married. Every time I hint at this he distances himself from the situation. Will he ever pop the question?

I can see that he may well have issues with you before he decides to commit

He really does have feelings for you and there is a little something about you that I sense he wishes he could change I do not even sense that it is a big thing at all but it could be something he has mentioned in the past during a disagreement that you have had. This man also has a second reason as to why he is not keen on commitment he seems to have his mind set of the fact that deep down he feels that he does not need to commit to you in order to keep you.

This obviously is a man that you truly love and want to spend the rest of your life with. In order for him to pop the question it seems that you are going to have to firmly let him know that you cannot see a way forward with this relationship if it does not move to the next level and you will start to question of his true intentions as I sense he does not really wish to lose you, there is progress ahead of you but it will not be for some time yet.

I’m not sure what the future will bring and it is scary to think where the journey might end. Do you think I can find my way to happiness?

I am being shown that decisions that you make during 2016 is the key to you finding the happiness that you have been searching for. I am being shown that it is down to your own actions that you manage to strive forwards and you will then start to find the happiness that you have been looking for. You do not need ideal circumstances in order to move forward stay positive that you can and will be happy. You are more than capable of taking the necessary action needed, you just have to make a decision to do it and this then leads into the happiness that you are looking for.