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I and 27/7/1991 have been going very steady for the last 8 months now, but of late we have been having a few fights as I tend to lose my temper very often and she also gets pissed off. Will we tide over this tough time? How will the rest of the year be for us?

It appears that you are both feeling rather fed up and losing your temper is actually making the situation far worse than it actually is, the issues that you lose your temper over are really not that bad but I am being shown that she no longer feels that she can discuss things with you in order to try to resolve this current difficult time that you are both going through. Your partner has already considered walking away but this she would find difficult and is reluctant to do so.
In order to try to turn this around calmness needs to be in this relationship and with this in mind as long as the discussions are less heated then this relationship can be saved.

I am in a cycle where I can’t make head way starting a business as I have to work in a career and need to move on into another position or start a business. Is there any indication things might develop bit faster in the next couple of months? I worry that I am nearly 60 and feel bit weary as well. Much appreciated.

I am being shown that although starting a business is going to be hard work for you it is wise that you continue to seek the success that you deserve regarding you own business as this is where it will make you feel the happiest. Over the next few months purely down to your hard work I am being shown that things do start to move for you in a really positive way. Once this is up and running smoothly things then become far less tense as you are quietly confident and settled that things are on the up in your life. If you should decide to move into another position with a job then I sense that you would not be totally fulfilled.

Hi Angie, I've been asking for promotion and was "tested" with a project since November 2015. Now it's been months and I have yet to hear anything about it, I'm starting to lose hope of getting promotion and with the stress at work I am tempted to resign and look for a job that will offer me more progress. Should I look somewhere else

I can see that this is a really frustrating situation, and the 'test' that you have done has impressed them, but it feels as though this has not been conveyed to you as yet. There is change ahead of you and it is a promotion however the stress around the work situation as a whole, even with a promotion is not going to cease. The situation that you are currently in is almost too much to deal with and I can see that you look for a new job but do not leave this existing one whilst you do so, you are going to be in two minds as to what to do as it appears that the promotion is offered to you just as you secure a new job and make your mind up to leave. The choice is very much in your hands and you do come to the right decision for you.

Do I have a future with the man I am currently dating? There seem to be many obstacles that need to be overcome if we are to be together. But our feelings for each other are strong, and we seem to share a connection. In fact, sometimes I wonder if my feelings are really mine, or if I am picking up his emotions. Your insight would be much appreciated. Thank you.

This man does have strong feelings for you, and he is fearful of what is ahead as there is such a lot to be resolved. He does want to be with you, however, you will see from time to time he can become quite negative in his thoughts as he knows in order to sort these issues that there are other people that are likely to get hurt this is what seems to scare him the most. I am being shown that this tricky situation can be sorted out but it will take quite some time for all this to happen and it could be well over a year before you see significant changes. The feelings that you have for this are yours you do own them. 

It will be a difficult time for you and it will not be without its ups and downs but I do see this man in your future years ahead.

Five years ago I met a man and fell in love, usual story! He however was married and didn't mention this important detail. We became friends for a short period after this where is disclosed his past hurts from his parents break up. Three years ago we lost contact as I had feelings and needed a clean break. I have moved my life forward so much and while single I have a happy life with my kids. The last six months however my sleep is haunted by the same dream, the man comes to my house and informs me he is getting divorced, I offer helpful advice and guidance. Why is this dream reoccurring? Two days ago when I had it he was sad, depressed and gained weight in the dream. I have healed these past three years and don't understand the dream.

Dreaming of an ex is quite a common dream and it means that even though you have been so very strong and carried on with your life which has not been easy for you at all, there still seems to be some unresolved issues. From time to time you may well think of this man and your dream is also helping you to deal with past emotions and you are still trying to 'clean up' some of the past issues you may have had.

Looking at this man it does appear that he had a shock when you called it a day with him and he also has regrets that he has not sorted out his life before getting involved with you, he seems now to be seriously thinking about leaving that marriage and it looks as though finances are what has held him back in the past. He is feeling rather down and the weight gain is surprisingly a sign of prosperity as he has worked out that he can be a lot happier with his life if he were to leave his marriage. Do not be surprised if he does come knocking on your door once more... The choice is yours.

I met a fabulous man and we were like soul mates (which I previously thought never existed) He and I were so close and I grew to become his best friend too. We have had a few intimate times and when we do its really great, it feels right and he is very much showing the same happiness, we have had a mini holiday and all sorts like that... However, when things get too good he can’t cope with this and goes missing for about a month. He has said that this is because he will not and cannot enter into a relationship as he was previously hurt and he said the depression he suffered is something he never wants to go through again. So for that reason we have never been an actual couple. Although it’s obvious to everyone there is this unmissable spark. I never bother him when he does no contact as I have a way of just allowing the space but I too now feel I am holding back because I am now starting to fear getting hurt, like he is. The attraction is impossible to ignore, I don’t know if its love, or what it is, but I am unable and he is unable to stay away for more than a month. My question is am I missing something, could he be using me, or are these feelings he has also spoke of real?

The feelings that you have for each other are genuine and he really does love you and his own fear is holding things up from letting you both move forward. This man really needs some professional help in order to overcome the hurdles that he sees as being real. The fear he has about getting hurt again was not something that he was born with it is something that due to a past hurt he alone has decided could happen again and it makes this situations unworkable when really it could be wonderful as there are deep, deep feelings between the pair of you.  

You can be with this man for the rest of your life the sad thing is that his behaviour will remain the same unless he stops being a victim to the past which is very sad for him and if he chooses to move on and deal with his fears in a positive way and accept the help that he is in need of then you can be in a very loving stable relationship indeed. If he refuses to sort these issues out then sadly things will always be as there are now but I am in no doubt that he does love you.