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Should I rent a flat for my son so that he can get away from the horrible situation he is in or will the young man causing all the problems be removed soon.

The problem with the young man in question is he is not willing to change at all and it is still going to take a long time to get him removed and as long as your son is happy for you to rent a flat for him then I really can see that this is the best solution. Your son is totally fed up with the way he has to live and will be really happy with your generous offer. Your son can then get his life on track.

I've been in a relationship for 17 years and I have the most wonderful, kind, caring and considerate partner yet 3 years ago I cheated and it has had a devastating impact on both of us. We separated and came back together 12 months ago and we are now at crisis point again because although I love her very much and we have a soulmate connection, I just can't seem to reconnect intimately and this is having a terrible effect on both of us. We have a very strong bond, we are the best of friends and enjoy each others company but for me there is something missing and this has led to me questioning where we go from here. Neither of us can seem to find the strength to walk away. We are both emotionally exhausted, depressed, low in self-esteem and insecure. Despite everything we are still trying to support each other through our pain but it is becoming more difficult. We share a home and neither of us can afford to move out. I just wondered if you could see a light at the end of this very dark, long tunnel and a happy resolution. Love and light x

This has been a really difficult situation and also lots of, many emotions involved here. The fact that you cheated on your partner has had a real detrimental effect on the relationship that you once had. Your partner has found it difficult to come to terms with what has happened. This 'wound' can be healed, the problem is that she does not trust you (and with good reason). It would be wise to figure out what her and your needs are and then decide if these are compatible with this in mind I sense you are going to make headway together. I am being shown that you can get past this and once again have a healthy and romantic relationship.

Hi Angie, I have been single for over 3 years. Will I meet a new man? I have joined dating sites and I go out but struggle to meet anyone decent. I am 55 years of age. Xx

Hi,

I can see that this has been a frustrating time for you and the three years on your own seems to have been a time when you have really got to know yourself and what you are looking for which is really good. The dating sites are O.K. but I am not being shown that this is where you are going to meet the man that you are supposed to be with, but you will be asked out on a few dates all the same. There is a new man for you of which is around your age and also young at heart, he seems to be have also been on his own for some time now (I feel that his wife passed away). This man you seem to meet on a social event and he wants very much the same as you. He will appear during the warmer months and it all happens when you are least expecting it and about to give up on the idea of meeting a new man.

This man is trustworthy, and you will be attracted to him, there are some lovely times for you this year.

I have started a new job doing something that I always enjoyed in the past. Now that I am earning money from it, I find I don't enjoy it anymore! I also feel that I am no longer doing my best and it has injured my self-esteem. Do I continue and hope things will get better or should I give it up?

I can see that money is outweighing your happiness at the moment and I can see that it is the lack of enthusiasm is making you feel that things are hopeless right now. I am being shown that you are going to look for a new job a new challenge and it looks as though there will be a new skill that you decide to learn of which you will find that you do enjoy and will also enjoy in the work place. This does not come about until much later on this year though. The job that you are doing has already run its course even though it has been rather a short period of time.

I am in a partnership at the moment, but I am very worried about how it is going. He is a dreamer and always chasing the next big thing. He doesn't treat me as his equal. He is moody. Money is a worry... Should I stay or should I go?

This is not a bad man however, he tends to come up with ideas that sound good at the time but I sense that he seems to either not fully look into things, or follow them through. Then when things do not work out the way he has dreamed of this does make him rather moody. Sadly this man is not going to change as it appears he simply cannot be realistic, and a partnership should be 50/50. I am unable to see that this man will truly stick to one thing, or even see your point of view of how his behaviour appears to make you feel very insecure indeed. It is a time now for reflection when you start to see what it is you really want out of life. I do see you take control of this situation and let him go.

I intend to write a novel which is based on one of my own personal experiences; I also intend to add a bit of fiction to it, it would be an intense romantic drama. Will I be successful in telling my story to a wide section of people?

I am being shown that you are very gifted with your writing, but it is going to be hard work but it will be of interest to many, many people.

This is going to take quite long time to write and there may be some setbacks initially when you try to get this published but this will only make you more and more determined. There will be success for you in the future and I am also being shown that no sooner have you finished this novel you decide to put pen to paper again as you have enjoyed it so much and it will be on a totally different subject that you suddenly choose to research. There are some interesting times ahead of you of which you will feel really uplifted and fulfilled.