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I was with a guy for a short period of time and the relationship was magical. Unfortunately it was short lived due to issues he had with family and past relationships. I am struggling to move on as I do not feel that any closure was given to the relationship. My feelings are still deep and I still feel a connection with this guy, can you tell me how he is and how and when I will get closure and move on, I am still hurting.

I am being shown that the reason that you cannot move on is due to the fact that there was no closure and it has been disappointing to you in a big way that this has not worked out for you. When I look at this man although lovely he seems to have been torn in many ways and has lost a lot of sleep trying to decide what would be the best action to take. He took a tough decision in letting you go. He is trying to get on with his life and at times he does think about you and misses you there are signs of regret. Closure is really about acceptance and once you start to accept that sadly this relationship was not meant to be you will then start to feel more positive and settled within yourself and will be ready to move on to someone new. I am being shown that there are happier times ahead of you this year.

I was in a relationship that was going well until by partners ex turned up after 18 months. She was very upset as she felt there were unfinished issues to sort out. This went on for several months with her getting more upset, depressed and then started to become abusive emotionally. My partner then started to feel guilty and out of concern for his EX's welfare, we separated. After a while the issues became intense and he had to have counselling. I was very upset that he chose her welfare over my own even though he knew she was manipulating him. We are still not talking and he is now isolating himself. I am worried about his mental welfare

This has been a really tricky situation and most of all upsetting. Your ex is very sorry for the pain that he has caused you and he really was not himself when he allowed the ex to return into his life, This man did what he thought was best at the time and he was very worried of how she was emotionally and she was very demanding and challenging and sadly you have been the one to be neglected. I am being shown however, that he is trying to sort himself out but he has found it very hard indeed to do so. Although he is isolating himself it would be wise to try to get to visit him he feels he has let you down badly and the guilt over the way he handled the situation is enormous. You have every reason to be angry with him and I know you are not talking to him but he actually does need someone to talk to and I feel that he would talk to you. If you do wish to be with this man then it will be you that has to make the first move as he thinks you do not want him try not to let the woman that caused all this problem win once again she had a plan and all along I suspect she wanted to ruin your relationship and to date she sadly has, if it were not for her you would still be together....

A few months ago my flatmate told me he is in love with me. In the last few weeks I have started to see someone but it isn't too serious as of yet. This has caused my flatmate to be really depressed and I cannot talk to me other flatmate as he is always in at the same time. I'm starting to feel a bit trapped in my situation and I do not know what to do about it. Please can you help?

Clearly you do not feel the same about your flatmate as he does his feelings for you have been growing and growing stronger day by day and he built up a scenario in his head of how things would be for the pair of you if you were together in a romantic way. This man is dealing with great disappointment at the moment and also you having a new man in your life has made it even harder. He was under the impression that there was some chemistry between the two of you, but you had chosen not to act on it on as yet, he was just waiting for the right time to approach you.

If you really do not fancy your flat mate then all you can do is be totally honest with him and in time he will come to accept this, the new man that you have in your life is slowly growing very fond of you indeed.

Dear Angie, I've been out of work for almost a year now. I’ve been applying for loads and loads of jobs but with no success. Will you please try to see if this difficult time will end soon? Will I be working soon? Thank you.

The key to obtaining a job seems to be landing a temp job, this will give you a pay check and also give you back some confidence that I sense you have lost of late. I am being shown that a temp job will allow you to build up some more connections but also make sure you make them aware you are looking for something permanent.  There seems to be a link to a temp job that leads to something more permanent for you. If you can expand your horizons then I see a much better way forwards for you and the springtime seems to be when you are feeling more positive about your working life as things are beginning to get back on track.

I'm finding it difficult at work to deal with my boss. We're a two woman team and she holds back work from me, communicates ineffectively and can be irritable and undermining. It's very disheartening working alongside her at times and if I were to address these issues with her it would feel more of a character assassination and unproductive. I have addressed issues in the past but it seemed to get me nowhere. How do I manage her behaviour day to day? Any tips? I'm looking to leave soon anyway, but in the interim I want some advice on the best way to work with her moving forward, thanks.

I am a postgraduate student, I have cleared all my papers and my research as well in Oct 2015, I failed one of my resit exams and the university has decided to give me one more chance in May 2016 to clear that paper and award my degree in Feb 2017. I have made an appeal to the University to exempt me from giving the exam again and award me my degree this year itself in July. Will the university grant me an exemption? Will I get my degree this year?

The University has thought long and hard about their decision and offering you another chance in May 2016 they feel is being fair to you. I am sorry but I am not being shown that they will agree to exempt you from giving the exam again. You will get your degree but not during 2016. They will (if you ask) discuss their reasons for this this is not a decision that they have taken lightly and they do have your best interests at heart, the decision that they have made seems to be the final one and it is your choice should you wish to re-sit your exam although it will be reluctantly however, the result remains the same just a little later than intended, and you will get your degree awarded.