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I have split up with my boyfriend of over 7 years due to us fighting all the time, I feel like I will never be able to get over him. Can you help me?

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It does not matter who dumped who it does still hurt and it can be tough to move on.It may not happen right away but you can take steps to get over him. One thing is to try not to bump into him avoid this at all costs if you can. It doesn't matter how successful you are at avoiding your ex, if you keep mentally reliving every fight and every good time it is no help to you at all. Busy your brain with new activities to keep from obsessing about what was. Throw away any souvenirs from your relationship discard letters photos and any gifts that he has given you. If you're not sure that you're ready to let it go, stash it all in a box and out of sight. If you have emails from your ex delete them. If you think that there is some correspondence that you wish to save put them in a folder and plan to look at them later. The end of a relationship is always a loss. Lastly keeping your emotions bottled up only prolongs the pain, you do need to reach out to good listeners or write it all down, the whole idea is to anger, sadness, resentment and whatever other emotions out of your system. You will not be ready to date yet as feeling the way you do is currently blocking someone new coming into your life. It will get much better though and you will start to feel lighter and start to live again.

Angie
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It does not matter who dumped who it does still hurt and it can be tough to move on.It may not happen right away but you can take steps to get over him. One thing is to try not to bump into him avoid this at all costs if you can. It doesn't matter how successful you are at avoiding your ex, if you keep mentally reliving every fight and every good time it is no help to you at all. Busy your brain with new activities to keep from obsessing about what was. Throw away any souvenirs from your relationship discard letters photos and any gifts that he has given you. If you're not sure that you're ready to let it go, stash it all in a box and out of sight. If you have emails from your ex delete them. If you think that there is some correspondence that you wish to save put them in a folder and plan to look at them later. The end of a relationship is always a loss. Lastly keeping your emotions bottled up only prolongs the pain, you do need to reach out to good listeners or write it all down, the whole idea is to anger, sadness, resentment and whatever other emotions out of your system. You will not be ready to date yet as feeling the way you do is currently blocking someone new coming into your life. It will get much better though and you will start to feel lighter and start to live again.

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